hi. the ranting below has been rated (C) .. in that it just Continues on and on. we recommend not reading unless you have time to waste and the paint has already dried on your walls.
as some of you might know, ive got a fancy do to go to tonight.
ive spent all day fretting over it.
in fact ive given myself a migraine with the tension
its some kind of ceremony so that my parents can accept the thingy of being made Australian citizens.
so, since its fancy .. im going dressed in the only nice stuff i have left in my closet. girly stuff.
now, this shouldnt really bother me.. ive been out lots of time, i present as female to my parents whenever we visit them .. so it should be all easy and a nice spiffy evening.
but .. my parents have never had to admit to the people outside of our family that im TS .. theyve never had to go out with my all dressed up ..
and thats the issue.
im not nervous about being seen .. im nervous that my parents will be too embarassed to have me come.
we are meant to meet at their house first and go there together .. and im a little worried that my father will tell me i cant come unless i get changed.
dont get me wrong .. my parents are good people and they do support me .. but my father is a little shakey about it still .. i just dont know how shakey anymore.....
afterall, this is a guy who, when we were discussing this all for the first time, told me that maybe i should try being gay for a while instead .. cause its easier to hide .................and this was with my wife sitting there next to me.
gee ... thanks dad.
this probably sounds really silly to everyone else ..
but its just that opening sequence ... i dont know what will happen ..
if they tell me to get changed, then im not going to be able to go - i refuse to do something like that.
i know this isnt a hugely special deal for my parents .. i think they want to go mainly cause the govt. is going to feed us
but i think its another turning point .. i could lose the support of my parents tonight. its a testing moment, but its not testing me so much as testing them .. and i dont know how it will go. and i hate when i dont know how things will play out.
so .. im leaking out my thoughts here .. and rambling quite well ..
but .. its time for me to start getting ready ..
i have to make sure that i look good enough to not be a easy source of shame.
so i guess the main moral is:
wish me luck.
or wish my parents luck ... whichever needs it more.
i dont know anymore.