Hi,
I am a MTF crossdresser. This situation is the ideal situation for all who do cross the gender lines. A MTF dating or being in a relationship with a FTM would be the natural way of things from my perspective. Just think of the possibilities, no more secrets, lies, or cover ups. No more shame or guilt of being who we feel we truely are. We can love without fear of any kind. Now that is a life worth living.
I would not have a problem at all dating a FTM if indeed HE is out there. I am at the age where looks, age, economic status, religious beliefs, sexual orientation etc isn't so much a priority or a prerequisit for a relationship. Just honesty, loyalty, devotion, communication, and committment. Now if I can just begin to search for HIM.