i'm as normal as the next guy, i mean, i like fantasies of being feminized and such, but often i'm freaked out, whenever i read crossdressing fantasy stories, like on www.fictionmania.com, there are so many about people being beaten, crapped on, diapered and so on, what the heck is this all about? i mean different strokes for different folks, but can't we be feminine without all the violence and weird crap?