I'm puttin this on cos of what Noname wrote which made me think of this. Last week in school we had a spanish day. The female staff who know me well like to tease me and always jest about gettin me into a skirt or dress. Well they wanted me to wear a flaminco dress and all the bits that go with it for a laugh I said ya must be jokin I'm no way wearin a dress!!!! Well on the Thursday two of my mates cornered me took off my glasses....all strength gone here lol and put the dress on me with all the trimmings. Then took me round the school, they even took photographs of me.The boys were horrified 'Omg get that dress off Miss!!!' To the boys I'm like one of the lads lol Everybody had a laugh but even some of the male teachers were like 'Erm no ya don't do dresses Miss' Lol it was funny they wanted me in a dress and then it was like well nope it don't suit ya Well I keep tellin them I don't do dresses maybe they can see why now!!! So that got me thinkin I'm on the brink I wear tight crop tops now but I really wanna wear my chest binder top that I got from underworks it doesn't make me completely flat but more chest like so maybe its time to try it out and see what reaction I get in some ways I don't care but in others I do if that makes sense. I have had alot of flack for simply being a butch lesbian so I am being careful with this one
So there is the expectation thing of what ppl expect that we should look like but when faced with the reality maybe realise why we infact dress the way we do because it is an expression of an inner feeling