This is my first thread, and I'm not shy about doing it. I lurked for a few weeks, and then I finally figured out how to join in, and then I commented on a bunch of threads, and now, I'm finally doing my first, and it's Christmas time. Not looking for anything, especially, other than a little support. If you've looked at my background, I'm 54 yo, divorced, and I have a 21 yo son. He's great, and I'm proud. I'm entering into a time of great turmoil, with the ex wife, who is getting brainwashed into the whole holiday splitting thing, I'll have him for this one, and you have him for that one, and it's all just a crock of B.S. ! For 10 years we have done the holiday thing pretty well, but, now, the ex wants to start dividing it all. O.K., maybe it's time, after all, he's 21, and all. But, the ex and I know, that we spend the holidays alone, if we split it. It sucks, and I'm whining, but it sucks ! Sorry, but I think that this a place of support, and I want it. I talk to her as openly as we are talking now, and I'm hoping she'll come around. We care about eachother as much as we ever did, and I'm psed off about it ! No, neither of us date, and maybe we should have moved on a long time ago, but be that as it may , I'm just whining, and I hope you all won't mind too much. At least I have my Rhonda to keep me company ! She loves me unconditionally ! Just say hello at least, and forgive me for being emotional ! Pantys for all, and all for pantys!