Since I came out at work last week I've been facing the inevitable silly questions and comments that I was warned would come. So now I find myself in the position of having to educate people who assume things based on their own ignorance or limited information they've encountered in the media. Of course, I don't have to educate anyone, but it's important to me to shed a little light on people's ignorance so that others don't have to go through prejudice and discrimination. I figure if I teach one person, they can go on to spread the truth instead of gossip, innuendo and misinformation. So, if I think the person is just misguided and would benefit from my teaching them something, I will. If I encounter anyone who is just too set in their ways and totally close-minded, however, I probably won't bother.
Here's a few of the comments I've had to set straight:
1. Someone asked me when I'm having "the operation". I explained that there is no such thing as "the operation", but there are a series of surgeries and one can choose to have some, all or none, depending on the person.
2. Someone else asked me when the hormones were going to shrink my breasts. I told her that if she could invent such a product, she'd be rich beyond her wildest dreams.
3. Someone told me he had no problem with my "situation", as long as it doesn't affect him, his family or his money. I told him my situation has absolutely nothing to do with him or anything of his ("Not everything is about you, dude.")
4. Another person told me I should now remove my Pirates of the Caribbean calendar and Johnny Depp poster from my cubicle and put up pictures of super models. I politely explained that girls are not my thing, never have been, and switching to the other team doesn't change that I'll always lust after Johnny. He was quite shocked by that.
Anyway, these are just a few examples of the kinds of comments and questions I've been getting - nothing I can't handle so far. I was expecting this, so I think I was mentally prepared for it. Does anyone else have silly questions or comments they've received and would like to share with the class?