Hi Everyone... I am so happy I have stumbled across this. I am in a monogamous and loving homosexual relationship. I recently learned that my partner may desire wearing woman's undergarments while engaged in sexual activity and I want to be supportive and help my partner try these fantasies. As a child and teenager I remember the sexual excitement that came from trying on my sisters' underwear, etc., so I can understand this I think. I have decided to let my partner lead this where he wants. but should I bring it up? I am worried now that the sex we have isn't gratifying enough for him. How do I support and encourage this without pushing my partner further than he may be ready to go? He feels embarrassed about it, and it breaks my heart. Thanks for any advice you can provide!