I want to have a girlfriend.

[Xaff]

I would like to have a girlfriend.

Don't ya guys have such a thing that you would want a partner/friend who doesn't know you're a girl/woman and realy belives you're a guy. And more of that.....

Morgan,

P.s Are there any of you who also flirt somethimes with the girls. Like for that one time when I was standing outside a classroom becose it had to from a teacher. And in the class next to it the girls were flirting at me. (That teacher didn't notice)

[CaptLex]

I know how you feel, Morgan, except with me it's a boyfriend. I got it on my wish list for 2007. Only problem would be, even if he saw me as a guy, I'm sure he'd soon find out I'm built a little different. As for flirting . . . I've been tempted to flirt back with girls when they've flirted with me - just for fun, but I think it would be cruel to encourage them in case it's not just for fun for them (hope that made sense). So, here's to us, Morgan - a girlfriend for you and a boyfriend for me (and hope they don't care what we look like).

[Abraxas]

Ah, yes, I would love to make the 'monster with four buttocks' with a lovely boy. But I wouldn't keep who I am a secret, as much as it'd be nice to not have to explain myself to everyone I meet. But, hey, I'm 20 with raging hormones, and couldn't stand for a relationship to not be physical (at least not for too long!). And in a physical relationship (not saying that that's ALL I want, of course) there's bound to be touching, feeling, and looking, and all that, which obviously would mean I couldn't hide anything for too long! Of course, then I'd have to get over the fear/disgust of another person seeing me, erm, disrobed. Oooh, it's a slippery slope indeed!

[CaptLex]

which obviously would mean I couldn't hide anything for too long! Of course, then I'd have to get over the fear/disgust of another person seeing me, erm, disrobed. Oooh, it's a slippery slope indeed!

That's it in a nutshell . . . damned if we do, and damned if we don't.

[Xaff]

I've been tempted to flirt back with girls when they've flirted with me - just for fun, but I think it would be cruel to encourage them in case it's not just for fun for them.

I think that's the nicesed part when you are a teenager/begin twenty-er. It is for fun. And most people just have a boy/girl friend for just a few weeks. Or at longest for 2 months.

Morgan,

[ZenFrost]

I sorta know how you feel.

If a girl flirts with me when I'm passing as a guy, I get disappointed because it means she's probably straight. I usually act unflirtable or really boring to get her to lose interest without embarrassing her. I don't really want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't know my real gender because I feel like that would be too much of a lie. I guess what I want is a girlfriend who's a lesbian and doesn't mind or even likes the cross-dressing.

[Evert]

If you find one, ask her she has a sister okay?

I know what you mean, life is lonely without isn't it?

I flirted with some girls but somehow everyone thinks I i'm a sweet person. A sweet brother. They rather think of me as a brother than a bf..

[pocoyo]

I would like to have a girlfriend.

Don't ya guys have such a thing that you would want a partner/friend who doesn't know you're a girl/woman and realy belives you're a guy. And more of that.....

Morgan,

P.s Are there any of you who also flirt somethimes with the girls. Like for that one time when I was standing outside a classroom becose it had to from a teacher. And in the class next to it the girls were flirting at me. (That teacher didn't notice)

Yeah I do well know how you feel. I do have friends that think I'm a (gay, considering that I might be bi) gm...which is what I feel like, but they are online friends. It feels very liberating though, to be seen as a "real boy", like being free.
They flirt with me.
For a very long time I was "good" and would never flirt back, (incase it would upset them if they know I was a gg), even though it was so hard and depressing not to. But now I do flirt. I simply can't help it.
The thing is I'm not lying because I am a boy. That boy part of me is real so I'm not giving them a false person (although I do feel guilty sometimes). Also... the females are open-minded people that even admit to having bisexual thoughts so... best of both worlds really I guess, nothin' I can do to offend them there by being a boy with some (temporary) female bits.... The males (gay), well er. I dunno. They just think I'm a gay lad (I am I am I am) and they flirt accordingly. I don't really fancy any of my online male messenger friends at the moment anyway so I don't really do too much flirting with them right now. There was a time though...

It is very depressing when people ask me to take my shirt off though. (You know, in webcam conversations). Because I so wish I could (instead of having a silly flabby chest), and if I had a boy's chest I would!

I love it when girls or gay boys flirt with me in "real life".
The girls usually seem to be silly giggly little schoolgirl types though lol (cos of the looking young I guess). Meh. I aint that much of a perv...

[Edit: I forgot to say that I fantasise about people seeing me as, and interacting with me as a gm all the time and wish so much I could meet my internet friends and some new friends as a gm... well a m anyway. Oooh to go out dancing as a stylish little gay/bi boy in a tight t shirt *sigh* So yeah I totally get ya mate.]

[Edit 2: (Just realised I missed a bit out) Yes I would love a boy/girlfriend once I transitioned who doesn't know I used to be a gg... but, (and this is something I struggle with) is it ethical to not tell them? Many people live in stealth though... hmmm... I guess you could explain scars and slight differences away if you had to... I know a lot of guys on here think it's not right to say you are a gm if you are a transman though. I guess it's all individual perspective...maybe.

And I suppose I would maybe like to try kissing someone who thought I was a boy now... but I wouldn't relax or enjoy it 'cos I'd know I still had boobs n stuff. Bleh.]