I discovered my CD interests at a very young age, and the timing was terrible, religion and family drove me to believe this was something evil trying to manifest through me.
It took years of detachment from my faith for me to even begin to see that the insect in my drink wasn't like a cockroach in soup, it was the worm in the tequilla - a hallmark of certain qualities.
Even so, it was a big hurdle to accept that I was more than a ... panty-jerker(*) and that I liked the items. A year ago strange new perspectives were opened to me, and I found them scary to accept. There seemed to be a girl in me, and I was tired already of fighting against clothing, never mind a split personality.
But somewhere a little voice seemed to whisper that it was simply a part of me. A part that patriarchal society calls "feminine" so as to ensure men are guilt free of their complicity in opressing the female sex.
A long story short, this struggle as getting nowhere. For a time, scared of a personality split, I tried therapy but couldn't "come out" to my therapist after realizing she had a crush on me
A little while ago, certain interests of mine led me to stumble across a hypnosis site with a variety of tracks - from adult, extremely kinky fantasy to what I would call CD-friendly therapy. A couple of tracks in particular stood out - one called "Parts Therapy", which encourages you to see your femme and male aspirations independently, but also a "moderator" to realize you *are* one person, and to allow you to choose which side to turn face up; to allow you to slip between these parts of your single self as neccessary.
So many of you here seem to have overcome these obstacles on your own, which makes me brim with admiration; there do seem to be others who feel as helpless as I did. To me the hypnosis track has been a crutch, Eleyna has been out and about this last week and she hasn't started posting gay personals or contemplating lude acts in public restrooms. She's cleaned up the house, compared materials of clothing in a practical evaluation of what's comfortable to wear and how I might spend my CD money genuinely wisely in the future. She made phone calls that needed making, sorted out a late payment that I was just too lazy to make a simple call to resolve.
I felt I was already getting very close, but that I was at a bit of a stalemate. It's not a recording that "forces" you into anything, its amazingly moderate.
I guess I'd like to hear how other girls have dealt with this obstacle; I feel like the recording gave me that extra bit of freedom to take the next steps on my own now.
Would just appreciate anyone's thoughts or experiences on the matter.
Eleyna
(* I hope not too depictive for anyones sensibilities)