I have had some fantasies, but only with guys that are also crossdressers. I don't think I'd ever act on it, I am too attracted to women, but I guess it would all depend on the situation. It has been on my mind, and its got me a bit confused. Am I bi? Am I straight? I don't really know!
But one thing I do fantasize about to have a pajama party-type of gathering with other crossdressers... just like the GG's have!
Myst
Yeah, but it's easier to get a guy than a yacht. =]Originally Posted by Christina Nicole
I have had some fantasies, but only with guys that are also crossdressers. I don't think I'd ever act on it, I am too attracted to women, but I guess it would all depend on the situation. It has been on my mind, and its got me a bit confused. Am I bi? Am I straight? I don't really know!
But one thing I do fantasize about to have a pajama party-type of gathering with other crossdressers... just like the GG's have!
Myst
Pajama party? pillow fight!
And then they all kiss.
I personally am only attracted to women when in either mode...but have thought there were some real attractive CD's around. Figure that one out.
I think it's great that you feel ok bringing it up here. A lot of CD's get freaked out at the very thought of a question like that...bottom line is, this can be a grey area for a lot of folks. Fantasy doesn't necesarily indicate reality and eve if it does, who cares? There's nothing wrong with being straight, gay, bi or any combination of. So thanks for your honesty.
"In a Patriarchal world, crossdressing is akin to treason...it's the ultimate punk rock expression."
- Ru Paul
I know most here find it enough to just be dressed and feeling the glory of being fem - of course, it is far more than that for many- but for me when the lipstick hits my lips (always my last stroke of femininty, completely taking me from here to there, as it were), I'm completely transformed and have all the desires of any woman. Really, I don't understand the statisfaction of being fem without having that tug of being a real life as a woman. God, to kiss a man? To feel his lips peal off from my lipstick...? What could be more wonderful???
Gay? Hardly! When dressed it is compelely a heterosexual thing... The morning after, we might have to talk.... : )
xxxooo
Robyn
When lost, alone, or blue I know I can always get through the day, for I've always another shade of lipstick to make things right!
pajama party sounds fun
"In a Patriarchal world, crossdressing is akin to treason...it's the ultimate punk rock expression."
- Ru Paul
I think I explained it adequately in this thread (at least I hope I did).
Yes, and fantasies is all they will ever be. I do enjoy the teasing and banter though. When I am out on the town it is just for me. I do avoid most sticky situations. I donlt mind an admirere or two and I love converasation. Actually no one has ever approached me in that way. LOL
I don't know if your fantasies are unusual, but ohh how we admirers are grateful for those of you who enjoy allowing a man to take you out, show you off, and experience all of the delights of the sort of special relationship. Nothing is more delightful than spending an evening out with a beautiful woman; dancing, dining, laughing... and seeing the look on other's faces as they realize that I am the lucky guy she will be going home with.
I take it back... the one thing more delightful is being intimately engaged with a woman who wants to be appreciated; and then enjoying the pleasure of that something special extra!
Enjoy who you are and don't deny what you feel!
I don't think your strange at all. When I am en femme I have thoughts about men that never enter my mind when in drab. Really it is kind of fun to let my imagination run free.
Huggs,
Susan
MALE BY BIRTH.......
FEMALE BY DESIGN
Not at all interested in men until I put on a dress then "with a blue dress on" although my favorite colors are pink, red and black
*giggle* all myt fantasies are about guys ^_^
but i very well might be the only gay crossdresser here, so im not sure how much it counts.
the formula for success:
A=x+y+z where A=success, X=work, Y=play, and Z=keep your mouth shut
~Albert Einstien
When I'm in drab, I like men, but when I'm dressed, I LOVE men. I'll admit, I'm a terrible tease, but I could fall in love with the right man.
I've never been with a TG, but I think we could have some tender and loving time togeter.
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Syuviel, you are not the only gay crossdresser here
When I am dressed I want to be with a man sexualy
It's a fantasy. If I'm going to dream, I'm going to dream big!
and
No. If one has the mind of a woman, then one has the mind of a woman 100% of the time. It's not switched on and off by the changing of ones clothes. You're also probably TS. Intimacy is emotional, intellectual, and physical. If the physical parts are male then one is not engaging in the physical act as a woman.
Regards,
Christina Nicole
Sooner or later we all discover that the important moments in life are not the advertised ones, not the birthdays, the graduations, the weddings, not the great goals achieved. The real milestones are less prepossessing. They come to the door of memory unannounced, stray dogs that amble in, sniff around a bit and simply never leave. Our lives are measured by these.
--Susan B. Anthony
No i don't have fantasies about men ..... i have a real one, who treats me like a lady. He actually opens my car door, and other doors when we are out.
And you know he actually likes to go shopping with me. We have gone to the casinos together and yes i do go enfemme or as we drag queens say "in face".
He has come to a few of my shows. He actually gets a little nervous when i am am between shows talking with the other people hussling a little to get a better tip when i am performing.
What a man i have......
Kathrynn
I would much rather be in the company of a woman. However, I do fantasize about experiencing everything there is about being and living as a female.
My state of mind also transforms when I dress but not enough to alter my sexual orientation.
xxx
Kathryn
Waiting for my upgrade to Female
I don't think it is strange at all.
If you had asked me this question a couple of years ago I would have said no, however,I have found myself fantasising about men more and more over the past few months. I think its because I have accepted to myself what I am and not supressing my feelings of wanting to be femenine any more.
I think to be attractive to a real man and turn him on would make me feel very feminine.
I don't think this has anything to do with my dressing, but I have to admit being curious. What's strange is that I've never been attracted to any male in particular, ever. I have a great girlfriend right now, though, and I am way more than happy with that .
There are times I find myself sexually attracted to men (especially to other CDs) but this doesn't necessarily occur when I'm dressed up. This attraction can occur at any time. I have even had fantasies about men (again, especially about CDs).
Despite this, I would generally say I'm straight; that is - I prefer GGs over men, but I acknowledge that a part of me is attracted to men, and I guess that's alright by me.
I mean, I think it is strictly a sexual attraction for me, and not an emotional one. If I were ever to pursue my interest in men it would probably only be for sexual gratification - as such I'd probably be looking for a one-night stand and not a relationship.
That's why I wouldn't say I'm gay, or even bi, becasue I feel (and correct me if I'm wrong, girls) that being gay or bi goes beyond who you want to have sex with, but is more concerned about who you want to have an emotional attachment to. If you're a man and you feel more attracted (sexually and emotionally) to men, per se, you're probably gay. If it's to women, then you're probably straight. Just because you have fantasies about men doesn't mean you're gay. I do and I'm not gay.
No, I may be attracted to men at times, but I'm straight. I love women, I would prefer having sex with women, I love my fiance, and I couldn't see myself living the homosexual lifestyle.
Great post Tanya! And don't worry - you're not wierd. I am!
[SIZE="3"]Do faith and cross-dressing need to cross swords? I believe not... ~XDW Nathan-Natasha[/SIZE]
[SIZE="2"]"How do you expect my enemies, my friends, and the public in general to understand the meaning of the images that appear suddenly and which I reproduce in my pictures, when I myself, who am the one who 'makes' them, I don't understand them either?"
~ Salvador Dali[/SIZE]
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Well, now, this seems pretty obvious!
Gurls will be gurls, and they seem to like girls, and gurls, and the girlier the better. If only guys could be girls. Wait! They can, can't they?
Good question, but think about this. Who gives you the most compliments when you actually go all the way and dress up like a woman? Women!!!!
It's not the men who sees you, cause they have no clue to begin with, I know cause I'm one. So why bother???? women will compliment you on anything which is cool, or sweet, or stylish, whereas men has now clue at all and hardly even notice you. A short while ago, I was at a party, dressed as usual as Sejd, and a friend of mine (a man) looked at me and said: To me you are still a guy in a skirt. He still had no clue as to what was going on and I had to pull myself together to educate him in a kind and friendly way about how transexuals actually feel. Waiting for men to turn you on, quite frankly my dear, I think it's a waste of time.
hugs
Sejd
I fantasize about wonderwoman and amazons not hairy men. he he
Bored? Try wearing a pretty dress. It's fun.
I don't have fantasies about men.....but I do have fantasies about other crossdressers. Mainly the attractive ones.
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