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    Quote Originally Posted by Sedona View Post
    Tall Sam,

    Don't go messing around with pharmaceuticals or anything. Your solution is simple: Right before you tuck, um, er, take care of yourself (sorry in advance to the mods). Assuming you're not an adolescent, that should do the trick.
    exactly right---and then make sure you stay dressed for the next 6-12-24-48 whatever hours---you will be fine.
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    Even GG's get aroused when they are dressing and looking at themselves in the mirror, more so when they want to show off what God gave them. Of course since they have a different lower anatomy then males, it doesn't show like ours.
    What you are experiencing is naural. If it is to much of a problem before you dress. Take some time out (1-10min )and resume what you were doing.
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    I suspect your looking for a quick solution, not all the other stuff that has been offered. Well, if you look at the Fem-Skin advertisement, they have a pad-like thing that gives you a nice round fem abdomin. Within that is a channel for "peter". Seems like a butt pad and a little cutting, a panty girdle and you should be all set!
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    Girls, thanks for all the ideas - some good some bad, some very expensive!!

    Anyway, the good old sort yourself out did it! I must admit that after doing it I really didnt feel like dressing, but I waited, sorted myself out again just to be sure, thought of the most un-sexy person then went to work!

    I dont like tucking so ended up taping myself and took it a step further, smoothing it over with acrylic filler, and matching the skin colour with paint colour and makeup. Stick on some pubic hair and walla - I have a very much femanine feature between my legs! I got stimulated a few times but as the advice goes, I stuck it out. I spent saturday night and sunday taped, gave it a breather last night, then this morning I couldnt resist and I did it again (without the full smoothing with scrylic and paint etc). I put on the cutest thong I bought on saturday, a pair of tights, my bra and lycra t-shirt under my work clothes and off I went. I chickened out a bit after arriving in the office and took the bra off but put it back on again when leaving. Well - I am in cloud 9, sitting here all dressed up - nice flat below (it gets a bit excited and firm but then soon gives up - today he is a she!). Would love to post a photo of my fem creation but I dont think thats acceptable on this site!

    thanks and xxx

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    Hmmm, interesting

    HI all, I am new to the forum here but am on another forum for CDs and I think Sugar had a good thought. You need to embrace you female part aswell as remember that we are males and we cant ignore that fact. I have been dressing for quite a few years and have gone out several times either to a drive thru or gas station and it helps with the senses. Now as I read on in the postings here someone mentioned Salt-peter. You do not, I repeat , you do not want to use this chemical unless you have a Dr involved! I had some supposed friends to slip me a few drops in my drinks for over a month and we are talking a major problem with the plumbing. Not only will it stop you from having an errection but it can complettly remove your sex drive all together perminently, and none of us want that.Tucking is fine but I can go out in panties and skirt and with the panties on me I never get out of place, but it takes time and as someone said earlier, you may have to take care of the errection with your fem clothes a few times to get "USED" to them being on you and not getting easily arroused. I was able to recover from what my friends did to me but it was a scarry time in my life and I never drink from a cup someone just gives me anymore. Try to take it a step at a time and you will be OK.

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    Usually the pain would prevent an erection for very long.

    So if you're going out, grin an bear it.

    If you want to control it, while staying in, then get a chastity cage/belt. Hide the key outside or in your car.
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    I have found that if I want to prevent sexual arousal before dressing "en femme", that the effects of hitting your bell end with a large hammer can last several hours.













    What?

    What did I do now?

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    Tuck, tape, retuck and retape over all and, oh ,and forget it somewhere in between.
    Sorry I cannot really help, apart from the above cryptic remark, which method does work, for me, if required.
    Last edited by Sam-antha; 04-02-2007 at 05:24 PM.
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    Smile Well, here is a "deflating" thought if you need it...

    Imagine yourself having sex with Helen Thomas. If that does not work, you can always take matters into your own hand.

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    GIRLS, can we talk? Lets be honest here. Mr Johnson needs to be milked when he interferes with your dressing up from time to time and he will cooperate with your ultimate desires. Problem lies when he is milked the girl wants to go back to bed for the night, thus the CATCH 22. Get some help if ya can't handle it alone. Some things are best left to the professionals. LOL

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    Vanessa Salt Peter, (Potassium Nitrate) is a myth.

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    I agree with Sedona, Let Rosie Palm take care of Jonnie....

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    Saltpeter

    Saltpeter
    From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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    The term saltpeter or saltpetre may refer to:

    * Referring to the chemical potassium nitrate (niter/nitre); and/or sodium nitrate (nitratine/soda niter);
    * The stellar astronomer Edwin Ernest Salpeter, who proposed the triple-alpha process for burning helium, and an initial mass function for stellar populations.
    * Salpeter War (1879-1884) between Chile, Peru and Bolivia.

    Potassium nitrate is the oxidising component of black powder. Used in fertilizers and is used to preserve meat, using nitrates in meats can cause cancer.


    FYI: The more you dress the less it will be a problem!

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    no prob!

    just wear fuller skirts and dresses rather then those skinnnntight body huggin' outfits....the only problem is with shorts and tight pants, but one size smaller panties are good containment...and long sweaters or shirts to cover also work...
    the only Other option is
    the operation!
    [SIZE="2"][/SIZE][SIZE="3"]Big Hugs!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamera View Post
    Even GG's get aroused when they are dressing and looking at themselves in the mirror, more so when they want to show off what God gave them.
    Love,
    Tamera
    Uhm.... I really don't know what to say to that.... except maybe... WTF?? I'm pretty sure the majority of GG's on this forum will probably be thinking the same thing.....
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    Potasium Nitrate.

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    Mind over matter hun. If you just try to clear your head usually it will go away. Well atleast it works for me but I dont really dress for sexual thrill. I just dress because it makes me happy.
    If something doesn't make you happy Change it

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    lol Tamara...

    Quote Originally Posted by Tamara GG View Post
    Uhm.... I really don't know what to say to that.... except maybe... WTF?? I'm pretty sure the majority of GG's on this forum will probably be thinking the same thing.....
    the only one who gets aroused when I am getting dressed is a part of the other half.


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    When I was younger and just getting into dressing in a big way, I was all shaved and dressed, and I was walking down the street, and the pantyhose and heels felt so good, I just blew it. Right there, walking down the street. My knees got weak, and I could hardly stand up. I leaned on a building, until it passed, and hoped no one saw me, and decided to help me.

    After that, I found a cure. Get some "Lanacaine". It comes in a spray can, and is used for sunburn relief. It contains an active ingredient of benzocaine, along with menthol, which has a cooling, and numbing effect. No prescription needed. Any drugstore should have it, if they still make it. Other sunburn relief stuff should work about the same. Trust me, it numbs the little fellow for a while, but not all night. When you are ready for him, he comes right back to life.

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    Potasium Nitrate.
    When I was a kid, we used to buy this stuff at the drugstore, and mix it with sulphur and powdered charcoal, and make our own fireworks, and rockets.

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    i too am a subscriber of the take care of willy solution before dressing. i think its part of what keeps me alive in this crazy world. and by the way i started cd,ing at about 10 (there abouts) im 50 now i feel the sex urge every time before hand. cp

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    [QUOTE=aluchi_aluchona;798301]
    How about taking a cold shower

    I've read it's a warm shower you want to take. Cold has the opposite effect.

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    I never take care of willy before dressing, or I would never dress. Taking care of willy, takes away the urge to dress, for a while anyway.
    Usually around Halloween, I don't take care of willy for a few days, while I'm thinking about dressing. The sexual tension builds to an unbelievable level, and I can just dress up and go out in broad daylight, in heels and a short skirt, without the slightest worry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamara GG View Post
    Uhm.... I really don't know what to say to that.... except maybe... WTF?? I'm pretty sure the majority of GG's on this forum will probably be thinking the same thing.....
    umm..I have to agree with Tamara...never been turned on by getting dressed up. I might admire myself in the mirror..but that's about it.
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    Any anit-Viagra type substance would affect the rest of the circulatory system as well - probably not a good thing. you don't want to be messing with your blood pressure without a doctor's supervision.
    The last time I dressed, the same problem was coming on, but once I got the pantyhose pulled up tight, everything was compressed, and it seemed to arrest the process. Blood needs to flow in, so squeezing the whole works up against my body seemed to prevent it. Good thing too - I was putting on a micro-mini type skirt. No room for error.
    Next time put up a picture of Dick Cheney on the wall. That should drive the erotic impulse right out of the room permenantly.

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