Originally Posted by
susiej
Sure as God made Little Green Apples, these two "old" guys looked at you briefly, perceived a cute girl, thought how nice it would be if things were different, and they were younger, and they met her and had a fun night with her, however you define "fun". At some point in your life, fantasy is all you have left, and when that happens, it's important. Then -- they looked a little closer.
OMG, it's a guy! I've been fantasizing about taking up with a guy! Oh, sh*t, I almost said something to her/him/aaaccck! I'm gay! No, no, I can't be, but she is kind of cute... No, *gasp*, how could I make that mistake? I'm not gay, am I???
If these guys had been younger, they would have taken the misconception in stride, and maybe answered you: "I'm doing fine, actually. Excuse me for saying this, and I mean it as a compliment, I was thinking of hitting on you."
The good news is that the "old" guys are dying off, and the younger ones are taking their places!
Hugs,
Susie