You know Tamera I don't get the notion that women have it any harder then men. Some talk like there are prisoners of this society that they "have to" do what society dictates. And as far as how they are treated in the work place that is another fallacy. I can tell you about two women I worked with that were just out right nasty to men.
Allot of what you ask here is from your one point of view. It's up to the individual as to how they feel.
In my view women are to be cherished. I have several female friends and they all know how I feel about them.
Sorry about going off subject Tamera. I just don't have any revolations about how Iv'e changed my thinking now that I can dress.