I go to a very conservative church, that considers cding an abomination. It is like a family to me, except for a few folks, and, I have only told one widow that I have had a problem with cding. She said she would never tell anyone at church(that should have been a warning to me!) Today, a group was at a table, discussing Bible, and one of the mimisters was right there. This widow always has her hair in a top knot, and I sometimes asked her when she will let it down. Well, I said "top knot come down", and she quickly told me rather loudly, "Do you want me to tell everyone about your secret problem?" I was about to cringe, and face the music, but, she relented. Whooo! That was close. I only dress, about once, every six weeks, not much of a habit.