I'm not worried about it. I don't think anybody can tell who i am when i'm dressed enfemme unless they know me really well. Most of my friends say i look really different enfemme from guy mode. I don't know why someone would want to tell others what i do anyways.
Good bye i'm at wacko taco .com now
To see photos we have posted here one must be a member, so to be recognised by someone is them admitting they too are a sister! I am now going out dressed so run the risk of bumping into someone i know. However the transformation is quite something so I doubt they'd know it was me even if they did suspect I was a crossdresser!
Because unfortunately it is not me,(did I say that!).
But if my SO read my posts she would figure it out.
She knows of my "problem" but not to this extent. So it would be a problem if she found out.
I would like all the posts to be private.
Do a search on your name and see what comes up. Many of your posts here!
Your avatar is visible to everyone, member or not. So if you don't want to be seen, don't post a picture of you for your avatar.
I don't think that it matters a whole lot, as most people viewing expect to see cross-dressers on a cross-dressing site.
I worried about it for about 5 minutes, and said what the hell... Anyone that would recognize me either already knows or is a member here.
My x-SO did tell me that anyone that hadn't met me en-homme, wouldn't know except maybe for my voice, that I wasn't a woman.
And... If you Google your user-name, it will come up. But how many people know your feminine name?
~~ Sandy ~~
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I have gotten a bit bold, as to show one of my latest pics, on the pic forum, with out my wig. I look like a lady, with short hair, I hope. I guess I am not too worried abou being outed, but, I am a litttle, depending on who sees it, and outs me.
Don't give it a second thought---I've been doing it for years, both here and in other sites and nobody would ever recognize Me----I suspect that most of the other ladies on the site are the same----this is particularly true if you don't give the name of your home town.
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every body i know , knows about me so i am OK with it . and if they come to this site well we will have a good talk about why are you here and lets see you en femme pictures
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but i don't ever post or send my "non brenda" photos with brenda photos...
i get asked alot to send them to people...
that side is my real secret...
brenda
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Just to be clear: Anyone can post 10 times and become a member. Once you post here, anyone can copy your pictures and repost them. And then anyone who sees them can copy them and repost them again. And if anyone who knows you sees your pics, they can anonymously email them to others - they don't have to admit to anything.
If you don't care who sees you, then none of that matters. But don't be naive - once you put something on the internet, it's going to be seen by many people. I've seen collections of hundreds of CD pics in Flickr albums. It is entirely possible that the guy who sits beside you at work is into "*******" porn, and could end up browsing such albums. It may not be likely, but state lotteries work because people bet on longer shots than that. I'm cool with my exposure, but I"m an old hermit. If I was younger, I seriously doubt I'd be so bold.
I think there may come a time when someone may recognize you somewhere via pictures or web trails. My current pictures as kerrie look nothing like my other pictures, however i did leave clues the other day sending mail from yahoo to others and to forums. What I did not know until the mail was returned was that my full name was on the email along with Kerries. So someone somwhere knows. Time will tell. But too I am aware and prepared if it does. Actually it might be quite nice to let it all out.
Now keep smiling and taking great photos...
I go along with ''Eva Diva'' in saying that it is possible to get recognised ,for example did you know that Karen hutton and Teresa Amina have an unoficial fan club of women who are fans of this site where I work at near london in the UK ?
I was walking by the offices where I work a couple of months ago and I heard some of the women talking about a great site callled ''Crossdressers .com '' and how good the letters were .Of course the most popular was ''Karen Hutton'' the girls loved her looks and style and also Teresa Amina amongst others was spoken off as a very interesting and witty writer .
The women found the site very interesting ,entertaining and informative .
I was worried that they may pick up my letters and recognise me by what I had written although I only have an Aviator ,so dont think that we are in a little club with only a few other c/d viewing the photos and what is written ,
there is a world wide audience out there !!
Love Nishababe
A picture can and will go places that you would perhaps not like to be seen in. But if you do not know then what the hell.
I think that outing is more likely on your PC, pic or not/ at work or not. But then that is your own problem.
All in all the chances are slim, so very very slim that they do not exist.
~Samm
PS Nishababe.. I am jealous of those two being known in london.. no mention of me..... boo boo hooooo hic
~S~
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'Kerriana "Samantha.....i feel like I'm hearing her through fractured glass.. She makes sense if you kinda squint"
Unofficial fan clubs? Damn Nisha, that was no one's intention, we're just trying to be ourselves here. Still, that's kind of amazing to me that some here are admired like that. Strange to say the least, no?
I don't look like Jo. And second: I was walking at my new school. Then two other students where "Awing" me. When I walked by I could here one say to the other:"Wow he looks like xxxxx" . So even if someone I know would get this picture I can blame someone else on this world that look like me.
Ooooooh! A fan club! Actually Nisha told me of this a few months ago, lots of fun to be recognised by people I'm unlikely to ever meet
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Not that slim, depending where you work. Someone not a million miles from me (well in the next room, acually) got his computer hacked into at work, along with a few others that were networked at the time. Personal stuff, including photos were published on a website and emails sent to everyone in his address book. That's how I found out- nice, eh? And others had affairs and other personal stuff exposed. And the daft thing is, he used to work in IT and he told me were they worked they could monitor everything that went on on everyone's computer, and could call up every screen if they wanted too. So he should have known better. So if you use a PC at work, be aware that nothing on there is private
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At some point you've got to decide what your comfort level is for pictures. I find that more and more I am not concerned. As I get better at this, I look less and less like my drab self. I do resemble some female relatives. I enjoy the feedback much more than I am concerned about being recognized. My wife and daughter now know so there are only a few family members to be concerned about. My friends......well, I would hope that the good ones would get over it....but I'm in no hurry to tell them on purpose. Just got tired of hiding so much. I go out in public alot, not nearby thou. Just decide what you're comfortable with and go for it!
Sally
You ever got it or you aint !!
Sorry Sam-antha that you are not as well known as ''Karrren Hutton'' back in uk ,but to quote the song from ''Gypsy'' which I think Rosalind Russell sang
''You ever got it or you aint '' well Karen sure has that Star quality both sides of the Pond !!
To you, Salandra and everyone else though ,you are all entertainers in the wonderfull and witty tales you tell !!
Love from ''Nisha the Babe'' xx
The Male and The Female look nothing alike (except the eyes...). I just started posting in December, and just began to expand on Yahoo. I really don't worry about it. I stress more when family comes over and I think "did I get it all put away...."
Hugs.
SandyR
Real Men can Cook in Heels...
I'm kind of in Lindahexi's position. At one of my athletics forums someone circulated a rather unflattering photo of a CD "half-dressed." It was no one I knew but it shows these things can turn up in the most unlikely places. Then there's web vigilantism. But I'm starting to relax a little.
I'm living on the edge, I post them on myspace site also, but when in fem I dont look at all like my male look.
Chances, slim and none unfortunately. NonCD's would probably grow bored with the site quickly If they didn't they are probably looking to post. If the queston arose when in drab that a photo of me was seen on "oh horrors'" a cross dressing site after the shock of the statement I may deny it or maybe ask if I look good.
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Now that amazes me.... I'm actually taken back a bit too... Knew there were others out there looking in but not consistantly... I thought the 425,000 views of my 360 site was the same wierd guy... Clicking over and over and over.. Hehe
Actuall scares me somewhat that this semi-secret life could get out of control.... Or maybe I just need to start charging membership dues... Firm up my retirement account a bit!! Lol
Well Nisha if you see your friends tell them I said hi!!!
life keeps getting stranger and stranger....
Love Karren
I wonder if Karren knows she was a cover girl for a T-girl magazine in March 2006? Just some snooping I did.
Gee Nisha, you've got my spider sense tingling and I thought Peter Parker was popular. Think I'd make out better as She-Hulk though. At least she has a sense of style. All The Hulk ever wears is ripped pants and a two word vocabulary:"Hulk smash!"
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