Anyone Still Like Being a Man

[Maddie22]

Does anyone still really like being a guy?? I really do like being a guy a lot...I enjoy sports, I still like shoping for mens clothes, I like being on a date with a girl still. However if I could choose to pick my gender when born, I'd with out hesitation pick female I believe. Dressing does do somthing for me I can't explain...and since getting more in touch with that side of my self I even look at girls differently, not only am I attracted to them, but I wish I could be them as well.
I saw a post that some one wrote that said they think they have a multiple personality disorder. I understand where they are coming from on that, I don't believe I have a disorder by any means, but When I am a man vs when I'm a woman, I have different personality traits and I feel like a different person.

Before It was easy to go in spurts and not dress for months at a time, but with in the last 5 months or so, its been so hard not too, and its been with in the last 5 months that I have purchased more than just clothes and dresses, did the wig shoes and makeup thing as well.

NOt sure exactly where I am going with all of this, but I guess just does anyone still feel very undecided about there gender, which one do you prefer, and if you could choose just one, which one??

[Toyah]

Not fair, I suck at being a guy and being fem is a hobby, guess I am a failure

[Karren H]

Love being a guy as much as being a girl!!! Best of both genders!!!

Love Karren

[Eva Diva]

I just sat through a few hours of the NFL draft coverage - not a lot of women would do that without a gun to their heads.


I'm a crossdresser. When the dress comes off, I'm back to reality. I have no interest whatsoever in being a woman - just looking like one.

[Kate Simmons]

The guy part of me wants to be a girl and the girl part of me wants to be a guy. Crazy critters. Some days it doesn't pay to get out of bed. Actually, it's all me and it's all good.

[NewBetty]

Not fair, I suck at being a guy and being fem is a hobby, guess I am a failure

I'd agree with that to some extent. Felt pretty unsuccessful at being a guy for most of my life. The last few years I actually got more comfortable being a man than I ever had. Which is why this CD thing becoming a near obsession in a matter of weeks really took me by surprise.

[AllThingsPretty]

I would have to say that being in a woman frame of mind is pretty much a 24/7 thing for me anymore. My job requires me to play like a man and at times I think it helps that I am a man, like when its time to take the car in for service and things like that. But mentaly even when in man mode i still find myself thinking about what I will wear when I get home or I really want to try that new nail polish. It's not that I do not like myself as a man, but rather I love myself more as a woman.

[Angie G]

I do like being a guy at times but I do love dressing and some time wish I sould be a GG
Angie

[Michelle 51]

I love lace and soft lingerie and the feel of pantyhose,short skirt's and heel's but i'm still a guy.I enjoy guy thing's and wouldn't want to be femme fulltime.If i had to do it over again i don't think i would change a whole lot.I would marry the same women but i would try to spend more time with my children because they grow up so fast.Sorry for getting off track. Justabit

[Byllie]

I was never macho, and enjoyed cooking and sewing more than polishing my car. Sports have always bored me, except for the Olympics. But then again, I wouldn't think that thesed are solely guy things or girl things. So, do i like being a guy? Frankly, I just like being me.

[DanaJ]

<raises hand> I like being a guy, I enjoy the male side of me, I enjoy the female side - I just like being "me" (as Byllie also said above )

[Phoebe Reece]

I agree with what Karren said.

[joann07]

I like being a guy and doing guy stuff, but I also like being in femme and doing femme stuff.
I like sports, cars (got 4 of them), collecting militaria, guns, cooking, dancing, etc. I can go on forever.
When I'm in guy mode I do mostly guy things, although, I have gone shopping for female clothes in drab, but when I'm in femme, I only shop for female things.

[Kelly Greene]

I like being a guy and doing things in guy mode. I also like dressing up and putting on makeup, I don't at present see myself going fishing or hiking out in the woods in a miniskirt,heels, and makeup.

[jennie06]

I definitely enjoy the feminine side and how it allows me to interact with others. It keeps the loud boisterous male side in check and also to help take others feelings in consideration more often. Then there is the guy side. Football, baseball, cars and the ladies. Yes I am also guilty of looking at them and thinking how great they are and wanting the dress and shoes at the same time. It's great having a foot in both worlds (Still have both feet in the main world right now but I guess that would depend on who you ask ) there would probably be even more people like us if they tried it.

[natasha]

About the only time I like being in guy mode is when I am working on my car(s) but honestly thats about it. Almost all of the rest of the time I am wishing that I was in total female mode, but work and family makes me keep the charaide(sp) going. Even working on the car I have underdressed on several occasions. Have you ever changed the oil in your car while wearing a skirt?

[UASIANGAL]

Reading everyone's replies, I noticed no one mentioned the sex part. Though in other topics, we were asked if we are attracted to guys. And in respond, I would say no and yes to being a Man if I had to choose. While I love the dressing, and looking like a woman, I am not ready to take on all that goes with being a woman (good and bad). My sexual orientation is still for woman and I hear so many of us say they would be a lesibian if they became a real girl. As a man, I can choose the part of being a woman I like. Dressing up, looking sexy...etc I do fantasize my female part having sex with a man but cannot put a face to that. (Maybe a ******* would be acceptabel!) I am very attactive as a man and had both sexes hit on me. To be a real woman, it would be more difficult to pass. So to want to have sex with a man, I think, it is kinda like watching a porno with myself enjoying both roles. So being a heterosexual male CD, I have the best of both. I respect others who are gay and wants to be a real girl and be with a real man, thus the terminlogy has labeled us into Transexuals, Transvestites, Gays, Lesbians, Drag Queens & Kings, ********....and what have you. In closing, I still like being a man! Now where can I find that sexy gold miniskirt.

Forward brothers and sisters!
Uasia

[suchacutie]

I'm with Karen as well: I love having a life in both genders.

tina

[Sally2005]

I gotta be both. I don't know why. I would not be happy choosing only one.

[AmberTG]

No.

[SandyR]

I love the gym, running, working on cars getting dirty, guy or little boy at heart! But I can't imagine not getting up in the morning taking a shower shaving my legs, and heading off to work.

Can't beat the feeling of putting on a nice new skirt.....

Love just being me.....

SandyR

[AmandaM]

No.

No for me as well. I suck at guy stuff.

[Victoria Anne]

I have to agree with many of the replies but to be specific, I pretty much stink at the guy stuff, sports ... no not really I do like watching gymnastics and ice skating,I suck at both. I do as my one repreve enjoy drag racing but then I grew up with it.I do like to fish...other than that forget it I would much rather be shopping,trying on clothes and shoes,cooking ,anything but guy stuff well save for model trains anyway. If I had to choose just one gender it would be difficult. I love my wife and could not give her up so I suppose I could not choose just one gender. I am happiest in femme mode,I am also fortunate enough that I have my wifes support and understanding.

[SandyR]

Victoria,

I love Model Trains, and watching figure skating. Bummed me out when my daughter decided to quite skating.


Seems you might have a bit of Guy fun in you!

Hugs....

SandyR

[Deborah]

I'm a failure at being a guy. I'd give it up in a heartbeat.