99% of the guys who contact me online only want one thing -- to meet in a motel room for a quickie, or maybe a longie.
It's off-putting, but hey, guys are neanderthals. If I am otherwise interested, my standard reply is, "Maybe we could meet for a drink and see how it goes." That eliminates most of the
But before we cast too many stones at the guys, most CDs who contact me online seem to have a sexual agenda. Some are upfront about it, others slightly more tactful, or perhaps I should I say indirect. I wish more were interested in friendship ...
As for playrooms, a recent incident: I have posted a notice online about an upcoming gurls' night out. A local gurl responded expressing interest, then recanted, insisting that we meet in private at her house first. Some song and dance about getting to know me before venturing out in public -- which of course is just opposite to my normal protocol, which I rarely if ever deviate from. Only by accident did I discover posts by her (not in this forum) to someone else describing her dominatix interests and the "dungeon" in her home. Definitely made me think she was trying to lure me to her home under false pretenses. Kinda scary. Needless to say, I declined rather emphatically.