A curious question I need to ask as a straight man. Have any of you who are straight, ever been in a gay bar, either in male or female mode, I kinda need to know both.
The thing is, since becoming more open about my other persona, I've been looking to find some other groups and meet other's like me, and have joined several clubs, at least via the internet, and I want to go out and meet them. The thing is one of them meets in a gay bar and ...
A) I've never been in a gay bar.
B) I'm not gay, and have no interest in becoming gay.
I'm not homophobic, and I don't mind "being seen" at a gay bar, part of me coming out is for me to overcome the fear. I plan on going the first time in male mode, but I do tend to look quite effeminate even then (I have long hair and all).
I'm just curious what to expect. Whether there were any signals or types of clothing I should avoid. How are the other gentlemen there going to react to having a straight man among them.
I'm open minded, and I think it would be a positive learning experience for me and all, but it's still a bar. Any any advice or experiences would be appreciated.
Thank you,
Pete