Many threats are about to pass or not to pass. I can clearly understand that but in my point of view it's overrated and it'll never work the way we want.
Some of us (barefaced) have a very feminine body, but only some of us and I think this is not the point.
I may reduce it to a questions for crossdressers by excluding the ones who really want to change their gender (TS) with the pain been born in the wrong body...I think that the wish (ability) to pass is sadly a kind of hiding, because if I can pass as a real girl and no one is able to figure it out - I would still be a undercover(guy).
Wouldn't it be great to be just accepted as a crossdresser?
So could you agree that the claim to pass as a real girl is a try to live undercover, to keep a low profile???
I mean, a crossdresser is a crossdresser and usually not a physical girl, allthough he feels more as a girl or loves his feminine-part and my idea for future is to fight exactly for that in between. You know, we have boys and girls, gays, crossdressers, transsexuals, transformers etc. etc.
Why can't have crossdressers the same induvidual standing like gay people have?
Is there a space for crossdressers and transsexuals to be accepted for what they are, without the claim to put them into a box and make them to pass into a society-gender-box? Maybe this comes up because I'm an "in between", so nothing really fits to me. I don't want to be accepted as a girl, I want to be accepted as me, that's it. So a new open gender class so it woul be much more easier to tell somebody that he looks great and not to tell somebody that he's close to look like a girl - to pass?!
I'm a CD maybe one day I'll be a transsexual - no idea about it yet, it may turn out tomorrow. OMG!
It's not frighten me, as I've found a lot of various lovely people here and this is givinmg me safety and hope and makes me feel a bit more normal - a variable-gender-class would be cool, or?.
So why we're not able to accept us for what we are (me too) and allways fight for this dream to be able to pass.
What's the idea about all this? So what we try to do is to be exactly like girls. And we sometimes even try harder to fit the image to be a girl, than girls do.
Is there anything else? I mean, do you think that it may be possible one day to be accepted as a human beeing no matter about your gender and your sexual orientation or do you think we will allways have to be assigned to something? So if I would like to turn up on a concert dressed as a guy but with hair and makeup like a girl couldn't this be cool allthough it's out of everything???