Im really considering to fully change into a woman for real i have always dreamt bout it for years, but im still a bit unsure but it would be a big relief for me if i did...
Love Vanessa Kitty
Im really considering to fully change into a woman for real i have always dreamt bout it for years, but im still a bit unsure but it would be a big relief for me if i did...
Love Vanessa Kitty
Vanessa thats a very big decision ....you should be 100% sure ... i don't think i could..however i would love ta be she/me ..without all the painstaking things we have to do.. to get dressed SPECIALLY the shaving... everyday ..hope you are doing the research i know nothing bout these things... i'm sure that many do
Definately something that you want to be sure about before you take any actions. It's not something to be done on a whim by any means. Now's the time, to try it out all you want. Cross dress. Go out in public. See if the life is going to fit with you. If the life is for you, you'll wake up one day and just know it to your very soul. If that doesn't happen, then stay who you are.
Me, I knew before I started that I wanted to go all the way. It was just part of who Iam. Trying it out, only reinforced my feelings and desires.
Priss
I want to live bravely and love without fear.
I want always to feel the wings of grace near.
We all will be Christed when we hear ourselves say...
We are that to which we pray...
Jewel
i also wanna b a girl but am to young for it how close can i get without goin that far?
with love, jenn
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Don't know the laws "down under" but in the states, we have certain requirements for those who wish to have SRS. You may want to contact a "gender varient" counselor, first! Just one girl's suggestin!
Virginia
I was thinking about it but decided not to. I couldn't "pull it off". lol
yea id love to be a girl but i still love girls if you had a sex chage and still sleep with girls would that make you a lesbian
sexygg????
you do know what gg stands fur donchya???
genetic girl you twit.......
now how kan u be a crossdwesser and a gg if yur a boy......?
hello.......
wtf?!!!!!
Well, bi atleast...Originally Posted by sexygg
Priss
I want to live bravely and love without fear.
I want always to feel the wings of grace near.
We all will be Christed when we hear ourselves say...
We are that to which we pray...
Jewel
If you're serious, read through the archives here. You'll learn alot and find resources to go to learn more about the process and what it involves.
Chrissy
Dont think i could ever pass as a real girly...so, however much i may "wish"... it will never happen. therefore ill just have to settle with the half way house (boobs, still with bits) if you know what i mean!??
paula xx
dear. Let the surgeons decide whether you could pass or not. They can work miracles. If you are choosing between living miserably for the rest of your life as a man, and being a woman who doesn't have the benefit of looking like a bombshell, well, it's your life but, it's not such a difficult choice if it is truly who you are inside. Take a look around you. Not all women are playboy pinups. It might be worth looking into and at least exploring the possibilities. Keep your chin up.
Chrissy
The technology available today makes it possible for any male to transition to a female with the right hormone therapy, electrolosis to remove facial hair, feminine facial surgery (FFS), and genital reassignment surgery (GRS)... There are many excellent doctors in the USA and Thailand that can perform these surgeries - though very expensive - they can change your physical body to look that of a female...
A good source of information for anyone who thinks that they may be a transsexual female is: HTTP://WWW.TSROADMAP.COM
I agree with paula
No way one can become a woman by SRS. Its mearly kidding onself and spending lot of money. Society will never accept a reconstructed woman.
We must be satisfied by wearings women's clothing aand admired ouselves in front of mirror or correspond with other cross dressers
Sorry, I have to disagree. If you go to Dr. Lynn Conways website you will find many successful male to female (mtf) transition stories -
http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conw...successes.html
Also Carla Antonelli website has pics of some of the most beautiful post-op girls in the world -
http://www.carlaantonelli.com/primera_pagina.htm
I'm surprised at that post, skirtchaser. Nobody ever suggested that surgery can MAKE us gg's. It's done b/c the MIND does not match the body and it helps align us so we can live life without losing our minds. You don't seem to understand the depth of the issue for many of us. I'm not saying this to dis you. It's just the fact of the matter and I don't think you appreciate the emotional pain some girls suffer from their gender dysphoria.
Chrissy
Therapist. What a rip off. Go to this website to get an idea about the HBIGDA Standards of Care.
http://www.tsroadmap.com/reality/hbigda-standards.html
The only reason doctors want that letter is for legal purposes. Dr Suporn (Thailand) as performed GRS on girls who were only full time for 6 months and DIDNOT have a therapist written recommendation. Bewarned though, that he may ask you to see a local therapist, I forgot his name, for an evaluation.
But to me Dr. Suporn has an excellent reputation because he averages 7 inches of depth for girls with less than average size - ah - male thingies
I think that if its what you want to become the person you are happy with you should do it.There are plenty of gg's that can't have children does that make them less then a woman. There are so many gurlz that have had srs and are extremely happy. Be the gurl you long to be
If that is you in the pic you are awsome and the surgery would be the icing on the cake. I am sure you have plenty of guys and girls for that matter panting over you you're beautiful.
Morph is right.I too think about doing this too. But unlike you and Morph I think I might be very disappointed with the outcome. After you've had couseling and decide to go forward, remember it won't fix problems that already exist for you but might actually compound them. But if your willing to face life as a woman and one who might be unfairly treated then you might be ready.
I've read and talked with a few women who found after there operation that the men they hoped to be with lost interest in them after the SRS. I guess the main thing is to ensure it is for you and you alone!
Danielle
Vanessa: I think its a lot like that old addage about being in love....
Mommy, when will I know if I'm really in love? "Honey, you'll just know. You'll see."
Well, if you want to know if should really transition, believe me, you'll know! It will occupy your ever-waking (and nonwaking) thought. You will feel at peace with your innerself. You won't have any doubts--fears, concerns, and worries, perhaps. But no doubts.
It sounds like you're not really ready yet. You have those doubts. Just give it some time. There's certainly nothing wrong with that.
Marie
HYE VANESSA; I guess you should know how you feel inside.I used to say I would never consider changing my sexual nature by surgery-but the growing desire within me is to be a woman.I really adore and love everything feminine and if surgery helps to accomplish that aim-who knows?
Whatever,I wish you every success in your desire to be a fully equiped Woman.
Love and kisses,
From a dizzy blue eyed english blonde,
Samantha.xx
When I finally decided I was going to transition I believed it would solve this inner conflict once and for all. I thought it would be the magic pill and the answer to my prayers. I was wrong. It created more than it solved and I abandoned the idea.
What I realized was something I had been told many times - You have to be prepared to lose everything if you do this. It doesn't mean you will, you just have to want it so bad you are ready to lose everything you have. That's a pretty powerful statement but I found it to be true. I wasn't ready to lose everything and even though I have since told those who know I'm not I still am suffering the loss of friends and family, the hardest being my son. So before you pursue this think long and hard about all that could happen. Much of it probably will. Our society isn't very accepting of men who take on anything remotely feminine, not to mention an entire lifestyle.
it's good for our health to have somebody bring us down to earth with a bump from time to time. You're not wrong, Julie.
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I lived in las vegas for 16 years and worked in some of the major strip hotels and for several years the same girl won showgirl of the year. She wound up being a post op ts. There are so many there Some of the hotest cocktail waitresses are ts's and even some cd's There are two at the Rio and they have some pretty hot outfits I personally knew two at the Tropicana and they could have any guy they wanted. So depending on your desires and as was said what you have to loose vs gain its your decision If those close to you love you they will eventually respect you when they see how happy you are. Friends may be in shock but thats understandable because it will be kind of like their friend or family member is kind of gone.
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