ok, well i made a mistake taking something i was told wouldnt work, and it seems to have to a certain degree, now mind you it only shows a little and the reason she noticed was because i was wearing a t shirt with a stripe right across the breast area( seems to accent) anyway, as far as taking hormones i would definitely talk to my so! i havent done it yet, as far as the therapy thing , i am going to a therapist this fall , or winter according to when it is convenient for both of us , as she is going , which i posted in a previous post but, yall seem to have neglected to research , and as always it seems here, everyone is quick to think the worst and jump on, in unison, the first "easy target" you can find, well, anyway, i made a mistake this much is true, but as i said before, my wife knows, weve had discussions, we have agreed to seek further advice from a therapist, as i agreed as long as i could spend the trip totally as suzanne, also doing this , we talked and she agreed that i could because i told her i wanted to have an idea about how it would be not to change back anytime i wanted, in other words, if im femme, i have to stay femme for the duration, i also would feel more comfortable in the first session trying to pass as a female so that i could more fully make the therapist understand what its like for me , being mistaken for a female, as i have posted previously, some people here seem to be trolling around looking for a fight to pick, or looking for someone to pick on, or i really dont understand actually what the point of piling on like this is, but make sure and get facts straight, get history, and get all the facts before you do this again! also, i wouldnt go jump in a lake ,but i could easily tell you what you could go do!, lol, this is really something else, i can understand the gg maybe having pms, but, what about the rest of you!