OK "girls" Here is a more direct Question. How would you feel if you were out and someone, especially other CD minded people, politely approached you? For the sake of arguement, lets say you were either totally "en femme" or as some of us do, partially. Knowing we sort of give off a "femme"vib, obviously because thats what we want, or that's how we feel. When at all possible, I at least wear light make-up and always something"femme" .
Even somewhat "femme" outerwear when possible. Meeting those like ourselves is hard enough. I would be thrilled if others ,especially someone like myself, either "en femme" or in "drab was willing or wanting to talk to me.
I know there are a host of other issues, privacy, etc. but there is also the dificulty with meeting or having other friends with the same interrests.