For me it is weapons. I have acquired and become proficient at many differrent martial arts weapons. The weapons are my arsenal. haha I can take care of me and mine very well. The only thing that sucks is that it is illegal to have these weapons within reach in my car. It's a stupid law! I mean I have some weapons that are six feet long bo staffs. Even if I could get it into the front seat (which I can't) what would I do? Poke someone out the window during an episode of road rage gone wrong. lol But yea, my love of weaponry and knowing how to use them makes me feel more manly.