Many of the posts on this site contain positive accounts of how girls have managed to come about their CDing to their wives, girlfriends, familes etc without disastrous results. Whilst this is reassuring for those like myself still in the closet, I wonder if the the outcomes are always positive? How many girls here wish that they had kept their CDing secret from their SOs, familes, workmates etc? Have their been any disastrous consequences socially or professionally?