Punch me if I'm wrong..
But a thread on the MtF section brought this to my attention..
If somebody meets you while you are in non at birth gender form and you don't tell them, that you're a transperson etc. Is it really deception or lies?*
Honestly I've run into a few situations where someone confronts people I love about them 'lying about their gender' and I always get really upset by this. Isn't the whole point of being a transman to be accepted as a male. As a "real-solid-100%-I feel like a man", male?
So if that makes sense to anyone...how do you understand it..
*(this was hard to phrase in politcal correctness...and i'm beyond tired right now..)