Brought on by "hit on by a male admirer" thread. What if.....

[SiobhanW]

Question in my mind, brought on by the "hit on by a male admirer" thread in the Out and About area.

Fidelity to your SO notwithstanding (if applicable), would you follow through on advances from a:

a) GG admirer you did find attractive but who was primarily turned on by you being dressed? I know...every CD's dream, right?

b) CD'ing admirer who you found attractive when dressed?

For me (again this is fidelity notwithstanding and purely hypothetical) a) would be a "Hell Yes" (although I would probably hope for something more substantial if the relationship were to develop beyond lust) and b) would be a vague perhaps (bearing in mind that I profess to be straight), but it would probably have to be a "perfect storm" of circumstances!

[MJ]

a) GG admirer you did find attractive but who was primarily turned on by you being dressed? I know...every CD's dream, right?

oh yes

b) CD'ing admirer who you found attractive when dressed?

IF i relay knew this person well then maybe

[Lisa Golightly]

A) Yeah been there...

B) Yeah baby...

[Littlej10]

In my wildest dreams.. but every which way!

[Eugenie]

Iv'e been in both cases. A and B.

I had a GG lover who was enjoying me being dressed "en femme" and I have a CD sister who is very fond of me.

In fact the real question is: "Do you feel something for your partner?"

In my case, if I have not built respect/sympathy for a person, be it a gorgeous GG or a like CD, I won't be attracted.

There was an answer expressing the doubt concerning how she would feel if confronted to a potential intimate relationship with another CD. If tere is enough of what I spoke above: respect and sympathy and if there is a mutual physical attraction, you won't ask yourself the question anymore... It wil feel natural...


Eugenie

[Pretty Sissy Dani]

Definitely yes for "a"...probably not for "b"

[tricia_uktv]

Hmmm, I think it should depend on what you really felt about them (not sure if gg or cd or even male makes any difference (but then I'm bisexual). Trouble is at the moment its yes to all - I want to play!

[Deborah Jane]

A...Definatly [i,m single now so no worries there]!!
B...Unlikely!!

[trannie T]

I like girls, sometimes I even dress up like them. Of course I'd respond to advances from a woman, no matter what I was wearing.
I like men, but not sexually, I would decline their offers no matter what they were wearing.

[Vivian Best]

[SIZE="2"]Sitting here thinking about your questions I'd have to say I wouldn't. Were it to come to reality, I really don't know what I would do. I'd be so shocked that I would do something I normally wouldn't do.[/SIZE]

[AmandaM]

a. of course, where do I sign up!
b. well, ok, don't tell anyone.

[RobertaFermina]

a. I did....Lucky Me !!
b. A while ago I responded, he chickened out. Then I met my Admiring GG. Now, I would consult with my (new!) S.O. Infidelity is not on the menu !

Roberta

[Mistybtm]

Both A and B for me

[Vaerise]

a) GG admirer you did find attractive but who was primarily turned on by you being dressed? I know...every CD's dream, right?

No, if they are only interested only when we CD it may be that they find us peculiar and unique, once we go back to normal we are just another regular normal person around. So in essence I think they are not really interested in who we are, but rather what we present ourselves as. It may be partly because I am interested in man than in woman.

b) CD'ing admirer who you found attractive when dressed?

No. It may sound a bit shallow but... Treating them as one of the "girls" and being friends is okay, going beyond that... its going to be difficult for me to accept.

[azalea]

Anyone that doesn't want to accept a fellow CD as a girl should never expect the same in return.

[Alex!]

No, and no.

Crossdressing is such a tiny part of my life it borders on insignificant. As for male admirers, friendship is cool, but I'm not into dudes. I prefer dudettes

[Nicole Erin]

I would prefer "b".

[alter_3]

"A" - Yes!!
"B" - Doubtful!?!

I saw someone use the term "translesbian" recently and thought "gee, that sounds like me!".

[kaitlin]

If I were looking for someone (not, very happy with my wife or "master" at times)
a-YES I know first hand just how cool that is
b-YES I have always had the desire to be with a cute CD, but never the chance.
Kaitlin

[Stacye Rose]

A) To a GG who was interested in me as a CD? Without question, doubt, or hesitation.

B) To a male who admired CDs and was interested in some sort of relationship? In the past I would have said H*LL NO I'm straight. But as I get older (and wiser?) I would now answer probably yes, at least for a fling. Relationship-wise? that would depend on the man and how good a job he did treating me like a Lady.

[Kate Simmons]

I dunno, each case is different. Depends on how well they can dance.

[MsJanessa]

yes and yes--been there done that

[carolinewalker_2000]

Taking all your fidelity provisos into account; I could really be attracted to a GG who admired me dressed. I'm not so sure about being hit on by a bloke. I'd certainly be flattered and might flirt a bit but probably not take it further than that.

[angelfire]

Well, I'm not in a committed relationship now anyway, so yes, and maybe. For B, it would really depend on the circumstances.

[Cheryl T]

A) BUT OF COURSE...

B) No thanks...if I wanted a man I would find one...and I don't