Like most anyhting, once something has been achieved, it's just not quite as good as it had been just thinking about it.
The having can sometimes prove to be not as attractive as the wanting.
If we could dress every day, go anywhere or do anything, with no fear of recrimination or rejection, if society accepted us completely, would it be as much fun? Would it feel as good? Or more to the point, feel as NAUGHTY?!?!? Would our desires soon ebb, now that it's okay to be this way?