Ok. I'm not even sure how to present this. I have a rather unique potential problem. I'll start with a little background, very briefly. In my 20's I spent quite a bit of time trying to be a "rock star" playing in bands in Los Angeles trying to get a record deal. (I sometimes wonder if my glam band days had much to do with my dressing)
Eventually I gave up. The nice thing about that was that I could dress without worrying too much about it. If I wasn't going to be famous then who cares what I do in my spare time, right?
So after 15 years or so of getting more and more into my dressing I have a fateful conversation with a friend who had still been pursuing his dream, but was about to give up. I told him he couldn't...his songs were just too good, so he asked if I would play in the band if he started it up. Well... I did.
Now things are beginning to look as though something might happen. He signed a production deal and we have recorded his debut album. If it gets picked up by a record company it could very well get national airplay and a tour is not out of the question.
So I ask...what have I gotten myself into? If his music sells and he becomes well known, what happens if it gets out that one of his band members is a crossdresser? Part of me wants to back out so that he is never subjected to that, but the bigger part of me wants to find out if the reality is as good as the dream. Any advice would be helpful.
Shannon