Goofus, you have been given pretty good advice already. I would add just a couple of things.
1.) Geez! You idiot! Don't you listen to anyone??? Shopping is NOTHING to be ashamed of. Fashion Bug is EXTREMELY CD friendly!! You should just go in, pick out what you want, pay for it, and leave. Skulking about!! My goodness, dear. No wonder you got in trouble. I hope you learned a good lesson. I hope everyone who reads about this learns a good lesson. JUST SHOP!!! Don't be afraid.
OK hon. That was all said with a big smile and a warm friendly hug, sweetie. Please don't be offended. I was there once myself.
2.) This is the serious part. Do you want to go back to this same store? You probably can, but you will have to write (not email) or TALK on the phone, with the store manager. APOLOGIZE for your silly behavior, explain
who you are (identify yourself), tell them what you want, and
why you acted that way. Ask if you can please return at a time when the manager is present. Tell the manager you want to spend money, and open a charge acount.
If you really want to shop there, I am sure they will let you back.
I agree that writing corporate headquarters will probably not result in any action. Dealing DIRECTLY with the store manager on a personal basis will work if you sincerely want to shop there.
Otherwise (and this would be my advice), move on. There are PLENTY of retail women's clothing stores and other Fashion Bugs. Try Dress Barn too. They are also CD friendly.
Now hon, How DO you shop for women's clothes? OK, here's how. When the SA comes up to you and says, "May I help you?" You smile (a nice friendly smile) and say, "Yes". Got it? you say, "Yes, you can help me".
Then you tell the SA what you are shopping for. Don't forget to smile. That's it, hon. That's all you do. Simple. The SA is a pro. That's what they do for a living. They see lots of CDers in Fashion Bug and Dress Barn. It's easy to assume that you are the only one when you are just starting out, but you aren't. There's thousands of us everywhere. Where do you think we get our clothes? We buy them. Yup! We buy them. Remember, the SA are professionals. They do this for a living. They see people all day long who want to buy stuff. You are just one more person who wants to buy stuff. They sell stuff. Go with the flow. Relax. It's actually quite fun.
Alright dear. There you have it. Now go out and shop. And don't forget to smile.
Lovies,
Stephenie
I shopped our local Fashion Bug in drab many times. I actually opened my charge acount there
before I started shopping "dressed".