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    OBgyn

    my wife asked me if I wanted to go with her to her doc apointment (obgyn)
    I asked her why
    She said so I can take the exam in her place since I want to be a woman at least I could get to real feel of what a woman gose though
    this question took me off gaurd
    after a while she said she was just joking
    I wonder just how much I am am I taking this to far
    for those who have a so or wife has she ever joked about trading places with her at her doc apointment

    missy

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    No, she's not that witty.

    I wouldn't worry too much, just pass it off as a joke. Even if it give you reason to think about what been going on with your dressing. Stepping back and thinking is good for us every once in a while.

    Besides, you aren't equipped for that kind of exam anyway.
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    I wasn't there, but I would certainly make the guess that your wife is not happy with things, and that was her not so subtle way of letting you know about it.

    She KNOWS that being a woman is a whole lot more than just donning fancy frocks. She wants to make sure that you understand that fact too. I would be very careful and progress slowly with her.

    Or, if your bold...invite her along for your next prostate exam. It ain't so easy being a man either!

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    Well we both Male & Female have our "unpleasant doctor visits" don't we? The girls have the Ob/Gyn, and we have the dreaded "Dr. Jellyfinger" for our prostate exams!

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    NO but I think she would jump at the chance if I could doit for her
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    I'm guessing. Does obgy mean "obstetrician, gynacologyst (sp) ?

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    Sure! She can go to the proctologist for me!
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    Obgyn

    I would tell my wife I'd go if I could get a prescription from the OBGYN for estrogen so I could really start to get the full feeling of being a woman. I wonder what she would say with that retort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StayceeCD View Post
    Well we both Male & Female have our "unpleasant doctor visits" don't we? The girls have the Ob/Gyn, and we have the dreaded "Dr. Jellyfinger" for our prostate exams!
    That's why I have a female Dr. She has very thin fingers ~giggles~

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    And ya wonder why we don't like to go to the doctor.
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    well I have gone with my wife to the OB/GYN and she with me to the proctologist , as far as trding places...would that I could , this would mean FEMALE body whoooa.

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    Well, I think you would know for sure but I think she was having you on (joking) as she said. That's good. If she can joke about it with you, then she has accepted the fact that you like to dress. I guess her tone of voice would indicate a gleeful or a sarcastic manner. If the latter, then it is likely your habit bothers her. Watch to see if she continues to joke with you about it, tone of voice and body language should be a giveaway. Hope things are on the positive side for you.

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    Wife no more

    I dont have a wife any more, but I do go to a OBGYN on a regular basis, its not so bad but if you have to you have to .

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    Or, if your bold...invite her along for your next prostate exam
    You stole the words out of my mouth!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sterling12 View Post
    She KNOWS that being a woman is a whole lot more than just donning fancy frocks. She wants to make sure that you understand that fact too. I would be very careful and progress slowly with her.
    Bunny went through a phase of complaining that Cd's get all the fun parts of being female without experiencing the hardships. Made me wear a maxipad continuously for 5 days. When I didnt bitch or whine she gave up. My guess is that this is a normal thing our GG's go through.
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    my wife says that every time she has her period.. it'd almost be worth it.

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    It is rather ironic that some women feel that they get the short end of the stick regarding their birth gender. Now don't misunderstand me on this point; I am not trying to marginalize what women need to go through. However, my thoughts are thus:

    Yes, women need to see the doctor for a few more issues than do men. At least until recently. It has become apparent that men have just as many, if not more, health issues than women. On the other hand, women are more apt to go to a doctor for a problem than a man (probably because a man would think to themself (wrongly) that if they go to the doctor then they are weak and need help)

    It blows my mind when a woman says something like "If you were a woman you wouldn't want to be one..." sort of comment.

    I would gladly accept all the issues women have to go through (yes, including periods, child birth, and all those hormonal issues that can crop up) rather than being a man. I do not think many many women (particularly those who say things like above) really understand what it is to be a man. The pressures, stresses and expectations placed upon a man, in my opinion and in my life, are such that I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy.

    I truely believe that it is much harder for a woman to gain an understanding of what a man goes through than it is for a man to understand what a woman goes through. This is because that when in groups, men behave completely differently when they know a woman is in the group than when they are not accompanied by a female.

    At any rate, in my opinion, both genders have their issues, and are equally hard. However, I would rather accept the pressures of womanhood than manhood.
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    I do not think many many women (particularly those who say things like above) really understand what it is to be a man. The pressures, stresses and expectations placed upon a man, in my opinion and in my life, are such that I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy.
    Now that is really really true!!!!
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    Is that why we crossdress?

    Because we think that we are under so much pressure and stress, we crossdress to escape because we think that women don't have pressure and stress in their lives. I don't think so! The young women that I teach, coach or mentor are fragile and very unsure of themselves and constantly doubting if they are pretty or smart or accepted by their friends or find someone to spend the rest of their lives with.

    DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?

    I think that we would like to undergo some of the physical changes to become a woman because we share the same feelings and desires and can't necessarily show them as a male. Some of us can, I don't know if I can, but having gone out semi-enfemme, I have shed many of the male traits that I don't like about myself and become the person I wish I could be all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StayceeCD View Post
    Well we both Male & Female have our "unpleasant doctor visits" don't we? The girls have the Ob/Gyn, and we have the dreaded "Dr. Jellyfinger" for our prostate exams!
    Your quote cracked me up, hahahahahaha. I cant stop laughing.

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    [QUOTE=Zee;1174925]It is rather ironic that some women feel that they get the short end of the stick regarding their birth gender.


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    IS THIS A JOKE!? Seriously.. have you lost your grip on reality or what?

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