Have you ever wondered, if there is a God, why he/she created us to be crossdressers? I see the many beautiful and illustrious members of this most enlightened board as diamonds in the rough. We come from many different social, political, religious(or lack of religion), and ethnic backgrounds. We try, to the best of our ability, to treat each other with dignity and respect, and for the most part succeed.
That being said, there still is a bit of trouble in paradise... GG's and CD's butting heads, some off color comments about people with other sexual or religious preferences, and don't even get me started on politics.
I came to realize that perhaps we weren't made crossdressers by accident, but rather if there is such a thing as serendipity or God's will, there was some greater purpose behind it all.
Perhaps that purpose is widen our awareness and tolerance of people with other beliefs and lifestyles. Maybe, in the context of this site, people who never would have gotten together are joined by the common thread of wearing panties, and that might be part of the growing pains we've encountered on the site.
I can think of few other places where there are as many liberals and conservatives holding hands, gays and straights chatting without judgement, protestants high-fiving catholics and agnostics, so on and so forth with the sappy imagery. It seems like when we focus on each other's differences, rather than the sameness, that's when the conflicts start.
I for one probably never would have been as open minded without having been a crossdresser. With my background, I probably would be as intolerant as the next guy, but nope, I have this compunction to wear a dress from time to time. It's hard to judge the next guy when you have your own baggage to deal with.
Point being (sorry this is another long one, but if you've ever read one of my/Charlotte's posts before, you won't be surprised) that perhaps we need to take it to the next level. Sure we're more tolerant of crossdressers, only because we are crossdressers ourselves. Now, knowing what it's like being on the other side of the tracks, perhaps we shouldn't be so quick to judge people in general. If we can take the mindset of seeing others as similar, rather than different, outside of this little community of ours, perhaps we can make this world a little better?
Just a thought.