Ever wanna dress up really nice or try something new really bad and the people you live with won't leave the house so you can? OMG it's annoying! I wish people would get a freakin' hobby rather then being a couch potato!
Ever wanna dress up really nice or try something new really bad and the people you live with won't leave the house so you can? OMG it's annoying! I wish people would get a freakin' hobby rather then being a couch potato!
Yeah i,ve had that, your,e right it,s annoying. I live on my own now and can dress when i feel like it, but i find friends still want to come over whenever i,ve bought something new so can,t try it on till the next day!!
Thank God I live aloneOriginally Posted by Hana22
Who are you to tell them what he/she/they should or shouldn't be doing with their free time? If they want to be an unsociable, boring old sod, then that's their perogative.
Yep,
Glad that's over.
Now that it is, it isn't over.
Ever have so much Guy-Stuff to do that it was irresponsible to put on that dress/wig/etc. that you are starving to try? or go out with the girlz?
And get this, did responsibility ever hurt good....because bust-out day is coming eventually, and you would have a sound and happy home to return to, or try it out in?
My Day will come !
[COLOR=Red]Open your Heart :
Heh, my friends that would do so all know, so they're wise enough to at least contact me first (I hope).Yeah i,ve had that, your,e right it,s annoying
One may tolerate a world of demons for the sake of an angel. - Reinette, Doctor Who: The Girl In The Fireplace
Why do they have to leave so you can dress up?
Last edited by jaina; 02-08-2008 at 08:34 PM.
don't complain, try dressing up in a dorm ;p. I live with 2 other people. I have to cover my bed with a blanket by putting it through the springs of the bed above me. Then i have enough privacy to sleep in my cute pink pjs and other stuff. Walking around in it isn't possible, just in my bed. But once i get home it should be nice, i have a whole room to walk around in! ;p
They do not approve of it and I respect their wishes and don't do it around them.
Yes there have been times like that for me.
Angie
there are times and people id prefere they not know.not cause i cant be true to myself but rather i cant believe in their not being a blabber-mouth.
Trying to dress when my roommates were gone was almost rage-inducing. I was able to sneak out and I was never ever caught. I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore.
I'm only glad that I shouted at them silently, inside. There were some very ugly things I wanted to say just to regain my freedom to be dressed up
before a few years ago, i was able to dress and go out in the back yard dressed, and do yard work....garden.....or just sit on the deck and hae my morning coffee and read the paper, and just loved doing so. my wife knows i dress and is pretty supportive, so it was no big deal......about three years ago the in-laws moved into the house next door........you wanna talk about putting a cramp in your style!!!!!....my wife asked very nicely, that i not reveal my feminine side to her parents, which i respect...but i was soooooooooo used to going out in the morning in fem mode and doing lil things around the yard and no i cant anymore.....i wish they would GET LOST too
I used to be in the Army and living in the barracks - try THAT for lack of privacy! But here's an idea for you - you can get a reasonably nice hotel room these days for less than $50. Pick a weekend and go rent a room so you can let your hair down and relax.
I know exactly how you feel. I love my wife & family to bits and love spending time with them....but it seems as if one or all of them are always here:frustrated:
Hugs,
Christi
Oh my gosh, Kim, you're right! Hana and her man should just "get a room"...
Also,Hana, what if your roomies did get a hobby and it was something like scrapbooking (sheesh!) that kept them home even more?
deja
the peeps you love will pass on all too soon.
I suppose many of us have felt this way one time or another but sometimes reality kicks in and "la la land" just isn't that important. Tree has a good point. Enjoy your loved ones and their company because you never know what tomorrow will bring. Now that I'm here alone it all hits home for me.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
Yeah. How dare your house mates (who probably pay their share of the rent and expenses) expect to get the use of the lounge and the TV and fridge
I can see why some members think we are a selfish group
Sarah R.
Every time I walk down the street, I see every eye on me.
Every time they look at me, I wonder, who do they see?
Perfection in disguise,with regimes and alibis.
The girl in the mirror , isn't the same as the girl in my heart
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Hey it ain't our fault people treat us like we are criminals cause of one of our hobbies. I can understand why hana wants some time to herself.Yeah. How dare your house mates (who probably pay their share of the rent and expenses) expect to get the use of the lounge and the TV and fridge
I can see why some members think we are a selfish group
Sarah R.
It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.
Christ, I remember this problem way back when I was in college, no one having a clue of my femme desires - I was still so desperately trying to figure it all out myself. I lived with three guys in this big house and had enough things hidden away to make transitioning possible. But Jesus! They seemingly NEVER would leave, always someone was around, especially this guy named Mark, who spent almost every minute of every day sitting around doing absolutely nothing, always wanting to talk. Anyway, I got so desperate that I started just dressing in the middle of the night and took my chances, luckily never getting caught... although I dared to venture out into our living room and backyard, often secretly hoping my roommate named Red would catch me. I had such a crush on him!
After this, I never lived with roommates again. Thank God!!!!
Robyn
When lost, alone, or blue I know I can always get through the day, for I've always another shade of lipstick to make things right!
I ain't even gonna comment on this one
I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me
"Dear Diary,
I wish my bloody room mate would piss off so I can dress in my Star Trek Uniform just once this year!"
So go out.
You chose roommates that don't respect you. deal with that decision, kick them out, move or just go outside.
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