The last time I was here was in 2006.
Since then my wife and I have enjoyed dressing me up many times.
She is not turned on by it as I am however she enjoys doing my hair and makeup.
I have thought seriously about going out and meeting a man as being (romanticaly) with a guy while I am dressed up apeals to me. We role play and we imagine and tell stories while we are in bed about these fantasies and I simply asked her what she seriously thought of the idea.
While not being entirely over the moon about it and feeling a little threatened by it which I feel it quite natural, I told her that I actually would be OK if she just plainly said "NO" if that is how she felt.
My problem is that in 16 years of being together I have never strayed other than pashing with some drunk while I was drunk too quite some time ago. I value my relationship and I wonder whether sleeping with a guy with no guilt from "cheeting" is something I really want to do and if it is whether I can live with it OK.
What are your thoughts?