I'm always struggling to get the right look when it comes to chest size in proportion to the rest of my body. That is, like most guys my torso is disproportionately wider than a female torso, and I have a hard time compensating for this when I wear a bra. I either look like a body-builder with a flat chest, or something out of a cheap comedy show.
Is there a way to determine the most flattering chest size in relation to the rest of the body, or is this all trial and error? So far, I'm not very pleased with the results