Hi, I was kind of hoping for a bit of advice from the experts here. I do have a few TS friends as well as some drag queens and the interest in crossdressing eventually surfaced. I am not one of those cases like perhaps most where we've done it since we were kids so I guess that makes me a bit different. Long story short, I decided to try it *one* time as an experiment just to see what it would be like and had three TS friends do me up. They did the makeup for me, gave me the clothes and wigs and taught me in a crash-course how to walk in 4" heels and otherwise how to be lady-like. So I went to the club (a TG friendly one) and it was a success. However, I realized that this is clearly not a one-time thing (as they originally warned me it wouldn't). Now I want to do this regularly like every weekend.
The problem is that I don't really have a lot of experience at this obviously and I cannot keep asking friends to devote more time to helping me as they have already put quite a bit into it. Sad to say, some of them have agendas as well and naturally each person has their own style which means that mine will be different from theirs. This is perhaps of a different topic but I run into TSs who cannot understand the CDs and then the DQs who cannot understand us either. The second time I did it a different friend did me up and did teach me some tips but the third time I did it all by myself. I did get some constructive feedback from others and generally I could use some more work.
I guess the question is where do I begin or where do I continue from? I cannot keep showing up to the club wearing the same outfit. I do need some more practice with the makeup and in fact need to buy components of it that I don't currently have. What about the whole shopping thing? When I went it was with a TS who knew what she was doing. If I go by myself I probably won't know what I am doing and get more than a fair share of stares. This is something I already enjoy but feel a bit trapped by my lack of experience with it and how to correct that. Any thoughts? Thanks, Britney