My Wife just found out

[Shadow]

sounds like a good plan



thanks

[destinysgirl]

give her some time and try to talk to her again...reassure her it is just clothes, something that makes you feel pretty. If that's the worst you would ever want to do...it's not really a bad thing...godd luck

[Samantha Thomson]

i know that feeling my gf came home early to saw me in a skirt garterbelt black stocking bra blouse red lipstick eye shadow mascarre the whole deel she came out and ask you want to be a women i told her and she said fine then you can be my girl that was 8yrs ago she real sweet but does buy me clothes loves buying sexy skirts for me and a bra or two and nylons

[Amy Hepker]

Don't push to talk, let her pick the time to talk about it and be honest and open. This is why I believe you should be open about it in the first place. It could be the beginning of the end. Let her decide. Just keep going with your lives.

[bobbiewpb]

ive been married for about 30 when wife found out. she said she wouldnt except it. six years later still married and sometimes she lets me dress and starting to except it. she leaves her used panties out for me to put on after work. she wont except you right away but give it time and dont push it. dress without her knowing and talk about dressing sometimes to her but let her except it

[kimberlyt221]

[SIZE="3"]I'm kinda' startled by the harshness in this thread. Obviously, some peeps out there have never been to the deep south, this kinda' relationship is hardly unheard of down here.

From the sounds of it, you two have much larger issues than your dressing. If she's downing that much hooch and has put on that much weight in a year, she needs help and so do you. BOTH of you need to find a therapist, you're not going to fix this relationship on your own, it sounds like it was quite broken before she came home and found you out.

Good luck and God bless. [/SIZE]

I agree. Instead of thinking down on her, try to remember the things that made you love her. You're still the same person with your crossdressing, and she's still the same person, even if she did " let her self go" ( I don't like that phrase very much)