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    In all honesty, getting old and senile is the most scary thing that I can imagine. My plan is to let myself go so that I go at a relatively young age. Die young and leave a pretty corpse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kimmy p View Post
    Die young and leave a pretty corpse.
    Damn...Missed my chance

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    we die? ,

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    I am eighty years old and still doing all right though I worry when I can't remember something. My wife is well along the path to forgetting. She has great difficulty speaking because she can't find the words. So I imagine that at some point if we live long enough with the hateful condition we will forget being cross dressers.

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    The only problem I see about being an old cder is having breast forms that will not be age appropriate. Not too many 80 year old women out there with perky boobs. Maybe til then someone will perfect granny breast forms!

    Jenny L.

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    I can only hope that if I get to be old..or older..I will still have my ability to reason.

    I have dealt with Alzheimers in my family and it is a heart breaking disease. The loved one you know is slowly taken from you until there is only a shell left.

    Sure we can laugh now and make flippant remarks, but it scares the beegeebers out of me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Davinnia View Post
    What, do you suppose, will happen to us CDers when we get old & infirm or develop dementia ? Any thoughts ?
    Dementia isn't a sure thing, but it's not uncommon. With most forms, the people remember their early years with great clarity, but yesterday is a blur. Many lock onto a certain period in their life, childhood, young married, etc..and stay there most days. We might forget about CDing but I doubt it. Most of us had some idea way back into our early childhood.

    If they manage to disarm me and get me into a nursing home I'll sure as hell demand my rights. If you are still in your right mind you have rights like everyone else. They can't deny you;

    Alcohol, sex (alone or with a consenting partner), porn, racy movies, or the freedom to express yourself. I plan on dressing most of the time because by then Who Cares! They'll already think I'm nuts! And by then maybe my breasts will be close to scale for my build.
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    Quote Originally Posted by joanne f View Post
    I have dug a hole in the garden 6ft deep each month i jump into it and climb out , and have told my wife on the day that i can not climb out she has to just fill it in

    joanne
    Interesting! I like it! Do you dig the hole with a sloping side to help you, or is it straight up and down? ;-)

    Maybe I'd better teach my wife how to use the backhoe.

    Patti

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    Getting old sucks.... every day a new wrinkle... And hey, my wife swears I have Altzheimers already............. What was the wuastion again??

    But any who.... If I get dememtia.... forgetting I crossderess or wanting to wear a dress all the time ..... is the least of my worries... since I won't be in my right mind any way.... That's life!
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    I think it is more the "quality of life" rather than how old you live to. Some here have said they don't want to live to be 80. My dad is 88 and has done very well until the last few months. My mom, OTOH, lived a pretty miserable existance from the time she was 50 until she died at 74.

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    I guess we all have to make the best of the good time we have left! Just don't waste it. Hey, I think I'll run down and get that new pair of pumps I've been thinking about getting.............
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    If all I remember is cd'ing I'll have what I can't now dressing 24/7.JUst hope I'll look half way good in a mini-skirt.
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    I'm one of the older ones here, other than having a terrible time remembering names, I feel just as frisky as ever and still want to dress sexy/cutesy. I just got this outfit on ebay, just love it. While I don't look as good as the model, I sure don't look like a granny!!

    So gurls, if you have the right genes, you can enjoy dressing for a looong, looong time.

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    Tube socks with nipples!

    The worst part of getting old, my breast forms will get saggy and look like tube socks with nipples hanging off my chest.

    Hell with growing old gracefully; I'm going kicking and screaming all the way!

    Nicole

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    Quote Originally Posted by Patti Girl View Post
    Interesting! I like it! Do you dig the hole with a sloping side to help you, or is it straight up and down? ;-)

    Maybe I'd better teach my wife how to use the backhoe.

    Patti
    just straight sides, but the odd thing is my wife keeps telling me to dig it deeper, why would she want to make it harder to fill in

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mitzi View Post
    I'm one of the older ones here, other than having a terrible time remembering names, I feel just as frisky as ever and still want to dress sexy/cutesy. I just got this outfit on ebay, just love it. While I don't look as good as the model, I sure don't look like a granny!!

    So gurls, if you have the right genes, you can enjoy dressing for a looong, looong time.

    Mitzi
    So that's were you got it from I would tell mitzi age but I'd have to make you disappear.I met more than few girs older than sixty. Still enjoying a dress
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brianna Lovely View Post
    I think that NOW is the time to start thinking and doing something about Transgender Civil Rights. A recent article on senior care, noted that over 60% of nursing/retirement facilities, mistreated Lesbian and Gay patients. The mistreatment was committed by both the staff and fellow patients, and included verbal abuse, physical abuse and social isolation.
    Are you sure that's any different than non gay/lesbian?

    Patti

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    Quote Originally Posted by Patti Girl View Post
    Are you sure that's any different than non gay/lesbian?

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    Yes, it is different.

    In checks across the USA, although some "straight" patients reported some abuse, all of the Lesbian or Gay patients that reported abuse, said it happened on a daily basis.

    Some people say that GLBT people don't need or deserve special rights.
    But, until people treat everyone equally, GLBT people will be singled out for mistreatment. Whether it's by, a nursing facility, the police, the government, the religious right, the courts, the store clerk or the average citizen, it's still wrong.
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    I want to die before I'm 50 >_>

    I can't stand the thought of getting old and losing my beauty, my memories, my bodily functions, my independence...but mostly my beauty <_<

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mydia View Post
    I want to die before I'm 50 >_>

    I can't stand the thought of getting old and losing my beauty, my memories, my bodily functions, my independence...but mostly my beauty <_<
    Oh Mydia, life begins at retirement!

    You get a LOT MORE independence when you can retire!

    A person's true beauty is internal. I still have my memories and body functions.

    Patti
    ancient at 61 and still able to count! LOL

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    So True

    Quote Originally Posted by KandisTX View Post
    LIVE FOR TODAY! Regardless of your age, if you live for today, then you have truly lived

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    I'm out as the gurl I am, every day, and love it. Do I live as a gurl, 24-7? I guess so, if that means letting my hair grow, wearing nail polish, wearing a skirt, putting on light makeup and lipstick, every day.

    But, the most importent thing is, I'm living my life as the gurl I am, and loving every minute of my life.

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    I think one of the main reasons I came out to my wife at 50yrs was because I felt time was running out. I wanted to spend some quality years dressing without having to hide & live in fear of being caught.
    I have no idea what lies in store for me & my wife in future years & probably wouldn't want to know either.

    Mydia, you say you want to die before 50. Tell us all that again when you're 49 !

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