I never wore my moms things because she always made sure I had my own things to wear even if it was my older sisters hand me downs which I loved but she always bought me my own panties and when I was 12 she took me to get my first bra. My mom and sisters always helped to make me as fem as possible and now my6 daughters and neices are always borrowing something of mine or wants me to do their make-up for them or help them with their nails.