I have been given some advice but an just wanting more input and ideas on how to break this slowly to a spouse where she will at some point accept it and allow me to do this on occasion. Pleas any help and ideas will be greatly appreciated. I really don't think just sitting her down and telling her the whole thing from the beginning is the best. Also not sure dressing up and letting her see me fully dressed is a good idea out of the gate either. Only hint I have ever given is that I have a big pantyhose fetish. Again, thanks for the help and advice