$1,000,000 Question

[Deborah Jane]

Am i stuck with this for life, or is there actually a way of stopping the urge to crossdress?

[Amy Hepker]

I will collect the money now. You are stuck for the rest of your life.

[jasmine57]

I have to agree with Amy, we're all lifers.

[Nikki A.]

Deal with it, it's worse than heroin.

[Phyliss]

Always have been, to one degree or another, probably always will be. Might as well have fun while I'm at it. It ain't gonna stop, learn to enjoy it.

[Tamara Croft]

Well that begs another question... why would you want to stop?

[Deborah Jane]

Well that begs another question... why would you want to stop?

Coz it,s screwed my life up once and it,s about to happen again!!

[deja true]

Coz it,s screwed my life up once and it,s about to happen again!!

Better tell us more, Debs!

You know we'll offer floods of advice, dear girl!

And somewhere in that flood might just be the life preserver suggestion you need.

You know we love you, darlin'. Who couldn't?

[Amy Hepker]

I am sorry to hear that, I won't say it screwed up my life up as much as narrow minded people screwed up my life. GGs that thought they could change me back into an all male. NOT! I am a CDer and I always will be. We have to find GGs that will accept us for who we are not what we are. As for our families I find it hard to believe that families would be torn apart for someone being the person they really are. I know it happens, but it ain't right.

[Amanda Shaft]

Its screwed me over a few times also! but it's not going to change or go away. I'm not better or worse for it really just a little more unique, a little more disapointed with life perhaps, but I feel things that other guys don't. Would I change it, yes of course, I'd be a 100% gg.
However I will survive... I feel a song coming on!
Amanda x

[Fab Karen]

There's a method, it's called a lobotomy.

[Deborah Jane]

The simple fact is i lost my wife after i confessed to c/ding and i,ve now found someone new.
She,s the type of woman who won,t accept this and i,m very reluctant to tell her!!
It would be far better for me to give up the fun of being Debs and keep a woman i know i,m going to end up falling in love with...
We,ve become very close, very quickly and i don,t want to risk losing her!!

Simple as that!!

[AmandaM]

I wish I could turn a key and it would be done. It would clear my head. Not being obsessed with these feminine desires all the time. Geez, that would be a mental break. But I don't think there is any turn off button. I lost all my friends once when I told a girl I wanted to marry. She outed me, started screwing around with "real men" and then left me. Since that time, I told all women I dated early. They can't hurt me as much. You have to tell if you think for one minute there's any chance you will CD again. The pain will be greater later on if you don't tell. If she can't hack it, fu** her. Find someone who will LOVE YOU, not just the VISION of a man.

[Wendy me]

if i could go back and tell my wife from the start abought me i would in a heart beet ....starting off by hiding it just won't work you know that..........

[Nikki A.]

If she really loves you then she will see that this is a part of you that makes you different and special. If she breaks it off then maybe she wasn't seeing the real you.

[Deborah Jane]

Looks like no way of stopping then....

Crap!!!

[Nicole Erin]

As long as you are not married or expecting kids or anything.

Keep in mind that this CDing will last longer than any relationship.

[Shelly Preston]

You know my thoughts on this already

I just want to wish you the best of luck for when the time comes

[Jenna Lynne]

Looks like no way of stopping then....

Crap!!!

A lot depends on where you are with it. Some of us do stop for extended periods, and without too great discomfort. But there are some things to think about when you go that route.

First, has your leg and armpit hair grown out? If not, do you want to delay hopping in the sack with her for a couple of months?

Second, supposing you do become very serious with her and want to marry. Will you be okay with skulking around and trying to hide it for the rest of your life? (I recommend against this course.)

Third, if you're in a relationship with her, will you be comfortable watching her dress up to go out, or will you start being madly resentful?

I have no answers, just questions.

***Jenna Lynne***

[Billie1]

Am i stuck with this for life, or is there actually a way of stopping the urge to crossdress?

Errrr ... no.

[Genifer Teal]

Am i stuck with this for life, or is there actually a way of stopping the urge to crossdress?

If you don't like it, then stop. If you can't stop, then maybe you like it.
Quite the conundrum, isn't it?

Gen

[Ashley in Virginia]

Not to Hijack too much....

Well that begs another question... why would you want to stop?

Because It is something that I absolutely hate. I hate how unnatural for me this feels. I hate how I can't be comfortable in my own skin. I hate how i have no idea of who I am because I have no frigging idea of why I can't just be the gender I was born as.

If you don't like it, then stop. If you can't stop, then maybe you like it.
Quite the conundrum, isn't it?

Gen

Not quite. I see it as more of a compulsion, similar to the guy who constantly washes his hands. Ask him why he does it and his response is like ours, "I dunno or it feels right"

[Samantha43]

I don't think I could ever quit, I know I don't want to.

There are women who are accepting and even supportive.

I have found balance in life is important. I feel crossdressing can be a very selfish thing. I try to keep the proper balance so my needs are satisfied, without testing my wife's tolerance.

[Angie G]

The only way is to open the top of your head and pull out all your brains. just kidding it can't be done. So just get dressed and enjoy hun.
Angie

[Jilmac]

I'm afraid you're stuck with it for life dear, the urge to dress will never go away.