My objection is the label thing again and the negative connotation labels bring. There have been multiple threads by CD's complaining about being unjustly labelled by society or GG's. It's my turn to speak out.
I'm certainly not against wearing heels especially if someone thinks I look better or sexier. If shoes can do that I might start wearing them on my hands but I think the CFM term is probably a guy thing. All I'm saying is, if you want and expect respect from us, then treat us with respect.