I've read many comments in this forum from CDers who believe they or other CDers look better than (some, many, most?) GGs. There is a thread in the picture gallery right now from a new, young, beautiful CDer who also thinks this way. Although I realize that not all CDers agree, it does seem as if the sentiment is expressed on a regular basis.
This thread is [SIZE="2"]NOT[/SIZE] about whether the CDers who believe this are right or wrong. I do not pass judgment nor am I offended in any way by the statements. I have noticed that the opinion is generally stated without malice. Beauty is, after all, in the eye of the beholder.
I am more curious as to why a CDer finds herself or another CDer more attractive, more feminine, or in any other way better than a GG, given a comparison between similar ages and attractiveness factor. Is it the better or more feminie clothes and attention to details such as makeup, hair, nails, or accessories?
An explanation might be ego although in most instances I do not sense this is the case. Might it instead be a matter of not comparing apples to apples? There are clearly individuals who, by societal standards, are more attractive than most people. Would there be a comparison of these individuals to the average person who is less physically endowed?
Or is it something deeper? The CDer who strives for and achieves her personal ideal of feminine beauty? Might it be that when en femme there is such a vast improvement, in her eyes, over the guy mode that the beauty factor is magnified?
Please, let's not turn this thread into a debate as to whether CDs "should" or "shouldn't" believe themselves to be more attractive or better than GGs. We all have the right to set our own beauty standards and to believe what we will for self-validation and to increase self-confidence.
I am simply interested in reading your opinions as to why or what it is that some CDers feel is better. Thank you!