Do you think this is wrong?

[`Kayla`]

Ok some of you have probably read my post and know a little about me by now, very little but still you know something. I have been toying with the idea of using plaster of paris to make a mould of my wifes breast and then use latex or something to pour the mould. I ask her if I could do this and she said yes thought I don't know if she's serious or not. I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.

Actually I want to use skin colored latex and all to replicate her breast to use as my own forms for when I dress. She is very well endowed and they are a beautiful size and shape..I envy her. I want to be truthful...but I am almost 100% positive that if I do so it'll cause a ton of problems. Since I mostly wear her bras anyway cause I don't have my own except for one sports bra...I figure they'd fill the cups just like she does.

I'm also toying with the idea of asking her for one of her bras but don't know how well that will blow over either. As I've told before she saw the pictures of me and I kinda think she thinks that maybe I do wear her bras when she is not here. She did buy this sports bra and the girdle I own but she's never seen me wear it. I sometimes think she bought just to see if I'd actually wear it even though she ask that before hand and I proudly said "yes!". Should I go through with this moulding process or should I forget about it? Give a good reason and please not the "you're a terrible person" response.

[valenstein]

I've thought about that myself. I wouldn't do it without telling her specifically why. The only way my gf accepts me is to include her as best I can. Even if she doesn't want to share in it, you're at least being up front about it.

Just this morning my gf asked me if she could wear one of my tops to work. It made me feel good that we could share in this, however small it was.

[Nicki B]

..you're at least being up front about it.

Did you really just say that?

[valenstein]

Did you really just say that?

??? one...two..three...how did i not get that, I'm such a boob.

Oh I know, I haven't told her everything, it's taken me awhile to find the words, it's the best advice I have that I don't always follow.

[`Kayla`]

Well I understand what you're saying but that is just it, I don't believe I can be 100% upfront and honest about my intentions. I have a strong feeling that she suspects but maybe pushes it out of her mind or to the back of it. I feel sure that if I tell her my true intentions that she'll wig out and through a freakin' fit.

I want to be honest with her...I'd love to have stuff we could share together, she'd be welcome to anything I would have to wear. It would be wonderful to go somewhere and end up buying matching stuff or something together for each of us. But I don't ever see this happening...I envy the ones here who have supportive SO's...you're so lucky.

I do have that bra she bought me and she's wore it a few times because I think maybe she thinks I don't wear it. It's kinda boring without something to make breast out of in it...so I hardly wear it that much. I feel like maybe it would be flattering to her that I'd want to copy her...I have no desire to cheat on her and I have no desires to be with a guy or anything like that. But I guess it's just the whole dressing thing that will cause such issues...I don't know?

[Nicki B]

Kayla, why do you specifically want a latex cast of your partner's chest, rather than silicon forms?

Is it just because you want what she's got?

[Amy Hepker]

That's a great idea, but I think I would be truthful about it, but that is just the way I am.

[Jilmac]

If you are able to cast a plaster mold as an exact replica of your wifes' breasts, and then make a latex form for yourself, I would say go for it. If you are successful post another thread to let us know the results. I for one am curious to know how homemade boobs will turn out.

[docrobbysherry]

If you are able to cast a plaster mold as an exact replica of your wifes' breasts, and then make a latex form for yourself, I would say go for it. If you are successful post another thread to let us know the results. I for one am curious to know how homemade boobs will turn out.

There have been a number of threads on boob making here. Maybe in the other sections. I've been one who worked at making my own for MANY YEARS.
The best results I got, were using Halloween, ( it's coming!), or novelty, plastic boobs as forms. Fill with plaster.
Latex will NOT work. It dries up, turns brown, and shrinks in no time at all. I've made some pretty good ones I still use, using Home Depot silicone and balloons. The filling inside these homemade forms is always a problem, too!

The suggestions to buy some inexpensive online forms, ( about $50), is the BEST advice you'll get, in my opinion! Good luck, Kayla!

[Di]

I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.
I want to be truthful...but I am almost 100% positive that if I do so it'll cause a ton of problems.
.

Since you said you CAN NOT TELL HER THE TRUTH...theres your answer..............if you know it will upset her...thats your answer... its wrong

[tamarav]

[SIZE=4]My wife is the most supportive person I know, I mean, I dress every day and work that way.[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]But, not even I would think of asking her to do that. That just seems to go over the line to me, but thats just me.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=4][/SIZE]
[SIZE=4]Your sis,[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]Tami[/SIZE]

[Deborah Jane]

Hmmm...Now theres an idea!!!
I really like Michelle Marsh,s breasts [she,s a Page 3 girl in Britain]
I wonder if i could find a way of getting a mould of breasts to wear

[PamelaTX]

As a practical matter, I don't think this would work anyway. Any material that would make a good mold will deform your wife's breast to the point that the result won't be anything close to satisfactory. A better option would be to start with a clay replica of your wife's breast, and make your mold from that. If either you or your wife has artistic ability you should be able to make a pretty good replica to start from.

But you've got to tell her why you're doing this! You're never going to make up a good enough cover story to get out of this one!

"How does she know all this?" you might ask. Well, that's a long strange story that I might share with you ladies some day, but not today!

[deja true]

Hmmm...Now theres an idea!!!
I really like Michelle Marsh,s breasts [she,s a Page 3 girl in Britain]
I wonder if i could find a way of getting a mould of breasts to wear

Um...er...actually... a lot of the silicone and latex ...um...accessories...that are available in ...er...adult ...shops are made from life casts of various adult film stars.


...or so I've read...ahem!

But I wouldn't go ahead with this without being totally honest. If you're fixated on your wifes breasts that's a good thing (if she knows it). And maybe...just maybe...she'd see it as an honor that you'd wanna emulate her rather than anybody else...

Just a thought. But it all hinges on you being totally truthful!


(BTW...the shape of the traditional champagne glass was decreed by Napolean to be an exact replica of Josephine's breast shape! Why do I know these things!)

[Holly]

You're making the decision for your wife to not accept because you're not even giving her the chance to choose for herself. Unless you are willing to allow her to participate in the decision making process, then your determination of the outcome will stand and you should not proceed (because you have determined that it will make her unhappy).

[emmicd]

Personally I feel you should abandon the idea and just find an alternative.
You can go out and buy your own lingerie and find breastforms.

Respect your wife.

Just my feelings on the matter.

emmi

[amishrobots]

I kinda think she thinks that maybe I do wear her bras when she is not here... She did buy this sports bra and the girdle I own but she's never seen me wear it. I sometimes think she bought just to see if I'd actually wear it even though she ask that before hand and I proudly said "yes!".

Not entirely sure I understand the question. So... she's seen pics of you, she knows you're cd, she has even bought you a bra, and you are worried about what, exactly? Maybe I'm wrong here; i don't know your wife, but I would suspect she can at least put 2+2 together? Transvestite husband + mold of my boobs, hmm...

Like a lot of the others here are saying, I would suggest, just be honest! I mean, a relationship without honesty, in my opinion, is not really a "relationship" its just two strangers in close proximity to eachother.

Mind, I could be wrong, humans are masters of self deceit after all, but I'm sure that on some level she must already know why you want her boobs; its because, well, you want her boobs!

I would also add that, as far as the difficulty of making your own boobs this way, sure it might turn out wrong, make a mess, turn into a big hassle, but worst case scenario? you end up with a botched pair of fake boobs. So what? The project sounds like fun, and possibly, a way to bring you and your wife a bit closer together. I say, relax and have fun with it, don't get all bent out of shape if it doesn't work right, it probably won't be perfect the first time or two, but at least its an excuse (as if you need one!) to more fully explore your wife's er, assets!

[Jamie S.]

I have some experience in making prosthetics for small independent movies, so I guess I should chime in here.

You shouldn't use plaster on bare skin, for several reasons. The weight of the plaster alone would deform the soft tissue of the breast. Also, using any form of plaster on the skin is not a good idea. Plaster heats up as it cures, and in the quantities required for casting someone's chest along with the plaster bandage reinforcement necessary to keep the mold from breaking this would likely cause great discomfort and possibly burns.

The way to do it properly would be to use a load of dental alginate to cast YOUR chest, reinforced with a plaster bandage backing. From this negative you'll cast a plaster positive (using something like Ultracal plaster, plaster of paris is very brittle). It is on this positive plaster model of your chest that you would sculpt breasts onto using grey clay. Once you've sculpted the desired breasts, you coat your work with light vaseline and cast it using the Ultracal plaster. Once cured, removed the new mold and remove all the clay from it. It is from the positive of your bare chest and negative of the sculpted breasts that you will create your prosthesis.

Store bought Latex would be a terrible choice, you would have to use foamed latex and that requires a massive oven running for several hours and is simply too complex and delicate a process.

The other solution would be to make a silicone casting, which is slightly easier with some of the compounds available now.

Honestly, if I had boatloads of money and time to spend on an endeavor like this for myself I wouldn't bother with breasts, I'd create facial prosthetics.

I'm sure I missed a few steps in between, but I'm basically just trying to point out that making prosthetics (at least good ones) requires alot of time, money, artistic talent, and patience. Using your wife as a model is a terrible idea, I mean, you could do it, but the end result would be a terrible latex abomination at best and definately a strain on your relationship with your wife.

Go with the breast forms. Cheaper, easier, more realistic, guaranteed to work.

[Angie G]

I think it cute you want you wifes boobs.
Angie

[Genifer Teal]

I am not judging your reasons for wanting to do this. Here is the best way to go about it:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=r8AO_oFhO6Q

Tell us how the process works out if you try it.

Gen

[`Kayla`]

I guess maybe I am trying to emulate her? But I'm not crazy like Texas Chainsaw crazy and try to take over her life and skin her nothing like that... I know that is not what you are saying but I kinda get the feeling that maybe some of you are looking at me really weird right now, I don't want that.

Yes, I wear her stuff because I am too scared to buy my own stuff that fits "me". I wish I could...it would be so much easier and I wish I had the guts to buy forms too. I just figured this would be a safe and easy answer to my problem...but I see maybe it's not. I wouldn't care personally if I were done this way but that is me and how I feel about things.

I'd like to do nothing more than tell her and have her support me. But I don't think that'll ever happen...I could tell her, sure, but I don't think she'll ever accept it...one way or another. She did buy me those things...and I don't know why. That was before she saw the pics and when I told her I wore that bra she was really disgusted looking with me. She really gave me some shit about those pictures too and I still hear stuff about that, especially when she's mad with me. She won't support my cd'ing...she doesn't know I actually do it she just knows I tried it...that is what I told her...i was curious. She didn't buy that I'm sure...

I guess it's best to scrap this idea then because the ones who said I'd be digger myself a bigger hole are right. You say it would cause me more problems than I already have...you just don't know my relationship with my wife. It is like living with a buddy or a roommate and not a spouse...let me tell you. I could go into great detail but I don't think I should do that openly here for everyone to read. If she ever finds these post I've made...a moderator will have to do some IP blocking I'm sure. I'm trying to be careful as to not give too many details about myself so maybe she'll never figure it out.

[Tracy_Victoria]

you just don't know my relationship with my wife. It is like living with a buddy or a roommate and not a spouse...let me tell you. .

Yes We do Kayla

Because we have relationship like that to, My SO is my life, when she is here but that never is 24/7, but she is in my heart 24/7. I Told my partner I was a Transvestite when we very first meet and got serious, because I wanted her to know, and I wanted to be able to share it with her. we started great but it all went to pot, she struggles to see me dress, has in 15 years seen me dressed fully about three times and to at times my dressing becomes more of a problems to me because I can't share it with her, than it is to her that I actually do it.

However my problem is, I still can't share what I really enjoy with her, believe me I would love our relationship to be perfect but it isn't, but that doesn't mean I just give up and go find someone that will, we get through it talk and comunicate.

Believe me, no one more than me would love to share everything with there partner, do every thing with there partner, but sadly I know it never going to happen. but at least I can talk to her, if that all she can give me, now, or for the rest of our relationship I have to accept that, pushing for more may get me more, it may get me all I desire, but I may lose everything due to it. But at least she knows, we do and can talk sometimes, and the door is always open for her to join me in my world, as much as I try to join her in hers.

good Relationships are as much as being friends and soulmates, as being lovers.

[Tracy_Victoria]

Ok some of you have probably read my post and know a little about me by now, very little but still you know something. I have been toying with the idea of using plaster of paris to make a mould of my wifes breast and then use latex or something to pour the mould. I ask her if I could do this and she said yes thought I don't know if she's serious or not. I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.

Actually I want to use skin colored latex and all to replicate her breast to use as my own forms for when I dress. She is very well endowed and they are a beautiful size and shape..I envy her. I want to be truthful...but I am almost 100% positive that if I do so it'll cause a ton of problems. Since I mostly wear her bras anyway cause I don't have my own except for one sports bra...I figure they'd fill the cups just like she does.

I'm also toying with the idea of asking her for one of her bras but don't know how well that will blow over either. As I've told before she saw the pictures of me and I kinda think she thinks that maybe I do wear her bras when she is not here. She did buy this sports bra and the girdle I own but she's never seen me wear it. I sometimes think she bought just to see if I'd actually wear it even though she ask that before hand and I proudly said "yes!". Should I go through with this moulding process or should I forget about it? Give a good reason and please not the "you're a terrible person" response.

Hang on, you have just asked your SO, if you can cover he breast in plaster of paris, to make a sex toy, and your worried about telling her you want to dress?

You seem to have a comunication problem, I would suggest you try pushing the door open from the sounds of it, your partner could be more accepting than you believe, and she certainly deserve you to be honest with her, and your motives to do this. Who know she might say yes, over the No you have already accepted she will give you.

And YES. PLASTER OF PARIS PRODUCES HEAT (A THERMAL CHEMICAL REACTION) AS IT SETS, THE MORE PLASTER, THE MORE HEAT. IT CAN GET VERY HOT, AND IS WHY SKIN IS PROTECTED WITH BANDAGES BEFORE PLASTERING BROKEN BONES.

You may find this link to useful on body casting kits

http://www.craftmill.co.uk/epages/St.../Products/PR23

[Butterfly Bill]

Since I mostly wear her bras anyway cause I don't have my own except for one sports bra...

If you are wearing her clothes, especially her "intimate apparel", without her knowledge and permission, I would say you are cruising for a bruising. Most women (and people) don't like that.

[Tracey Corset]

Dont go any further with this Kayla, i'll tell you why, i have a very happy openly cd marriage, but i would never want my wifes boobs, lets be honest we all want boobs right ? but my wife likes me to be me (Tracey) when i am dressed, and not look in a mirror at her own chest !!!, try taking one step at a time, there are many low cost ways to fill a bra, after all most of us girls have more than one set, its all about comfort and the occasion, please be patient and concentrate on turning yourself into the lovely Kayla