A thought just occured to me...
Very few of us can really nail being totally passable as a female....but what if we were told that "we look very nice dressed/made-up" even though they really knew (or said) we were CDing/TG....wouldn't that make it all worth while....
I was thinking of a situation where say we were in Victoria Secrets in drab (or dressed for that matter...) and looking for some items for us and events evolved to where we showed a picture (or she was seeing us at our best in female dress) to say, SA of oursleves dressed (as many of us here show pictures of ourselves) and the SA looked and genuinly said how great we looked as a female...wouldn't that be validating enough for us???? would we have reached our goal in dressing and achieving "the look"????
Just wondering what your thought would be if this were to happen to you....
Steph