My relationship is in ruins. I have a 2 year old daughter. My stomach is rolling continuously. I feel lower than a snakes belly in a wagon rut.
Coming out to my SO as a crossdresser has made me a pin cushion. Granted, she isn't a very good person. She takes shots at absolutely everything, constantly taking notes so that she can take aim at a later date. But, now I'm the target. I'm the weirdo. I'm the loser.
I've told her that I am not interested in any level of communication with her until she apologizes for the things that she has said and done. She won't. She's gone so far as to insult me and target my dead father. I won't tolerate it now matter what anybody says. On the other hand, I realize that an ultimatum that attempts to force someone into apologizing will never work either. So..................