I wouldn't recommend it without taking a long time to think it over.
I wouldn't recommend it without taking a long time to think it over.
Last edited by Kris Vasquez; 12-22-2008 at 12:48 PM. Reason: change of mind
When it come's to this subject,I'm lucky that me and my wife swing and she nows I'm bi.So if I could find a guy that I trust to share my dressing with then I'm sure it'll happen hehe.But if your s/o doesn't know about or approves to it then all you are doing is cheating,and is that a path you'd really want to travel.When one cheats it causes alot of pain for both poeple.Like others have said,sometimes a fastasy is best left at that.
Don't cheat...you will get caught! But more importanly its wrong. Almost every friend I have that has monkeyed around sooner or later gets caught.
Honestly if in guy mode you are not attracted to guys I don't want to offend ya but I doubt you are gay or bi. You would probably would be dissappointed when the reality was not as nice as the fantasy.
Sex, dating and relationships is the great dissappointment of being a CD/Tgirl. If you are gay like me its all but impossible to have a relationship with a guy. Now a lot of guys will have sex with us...and it can be quite fun...but its all short-term stuff. I have had only one guy that took me out on real dates.
i felt the same way and i was married to i had my cake and pie too i had both worlds in one it felt good why it was now i am single so i have no one
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i say the same thing but you said it for me thank youOriginally Posted by Michelle42
I also like to imagine that I'm with a gentleman while I am in drab. I think it makes perfect sense - this is what makes one's transformation into a woman "complete". I'd like to experience it one day.
I think it is wrong at this point to wonder if one's gay - the way I see it gays are simply men attracted to men who like to be men.
I also feel the same, that is, curious about men while dressed.
I don't condone cheating though, Put yourself in your wife's place, think how you'd feel if the roles were reversed, and she cheated on you......
That is called "He who yells the loudest has the most to hide."
It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.
After years of fantasy and "substitutes" I, after a life threatening hospitalization, wondered if I was missing something and might die without actually experiencing the sex act as a woman. I decided to see and feel what it was all about. I comclude that, for me anyway, being with a man is fantastic. It completes me, makes me feel so very female and wouldn't trade it for anything. It exceeded my expectations and I simply can't get enough of it.
Granted, it may not be for everybody but I do think that we are all very different men as well as girls. I did, for many years, hover on the other side of the line but that was mostly because, in my younger years, the attempt to get together with a man was incredibly difficult. Using the USPS to make contact was a long and difficult process. Modern age use of computers has made the process much easier. I must admit too that the "morality" of the thing doesn't bother me one bit. I am not religious either. I love it and will likely do this as long as I am able to do it.
If younger, I would absolutely attenpt to get SRS and live my life as the woman I want to be.
I am a man who is also not gay.I can't even look at another man like that.But when he becomes a she it drives me crazy.I look at the pictures and read the stries on Literotica and all i can imagine is going to bed with her and treating her like a real women.So you are not alnoe in your feelings
I had a date last night with a great guy We went to nice Restaurant in the City and back to his place after, being divorced I am free to experience the things I have been dreaming of for a long time. I cant tell you how femme I felt being made love to as a women. I know its not for everyone, but with the right person it is unbelievable. I dont really have feeling for men when I'm not dressed, but when I become Marla that changes I think its more of an acceptance of my female side
Wow this thread has had alot of comments. Just so yall know I have decided to not pursue it. Just keep it a fantasy until such time that my wife will accept it.
When I first told her about my crossdressing she was not very accepting of it. But eventually she came around and even has helped me dress, bought "pretties" (as she calls them) for me and even have sex with her as a woman. So I cant complain alot of us girls dont have that.
We have been approached by some swingers and my wife has been curious. The lady said she was bi so my wife has thought about being with another woman since she seems curious. I told her if she wants to that is fine, if not that is fine too. But I do beleive if she does she would be more accepting of me being with a guy. I am not sure of these swingers, whether the guy is bi but we will find out, I just have to wait and see. Unfortunatley they live in Dallas and they keep saying they are going to come down and rent a room so we can "party" . But things keep not working out so I must wait
Anyways my point is, I will just wait on my wife and see how things go. I do love her dearly and would never want to hurt her.
I beleive this post has helped me settle things in my mind. So thank you everyone
Just remember, you cannot unring a bell...
Last edited by Sandra; 10-23-2008 at 07:10 AM. Reason: No need to quote the whole post
Alexandria, I have not read all of the posts in this thread but in case it hasn't already been suggested, asking your wife for a male-bisexual threesome might be the best option for you. Nothing wrong with some kinkiness in your life.
the problem is your feelings how will you react to seeing the one you love with someone else and how will your wife take it . it could destroy everything you both have.
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If I were in your situation, I'd say the best thing is role reversal with your wife. Hopefully she can understand your Bi needs and treat you like a woman. Then this wouldn't be cheating.
I joined a sex forum too and there have been posts by women who wanted to see their hubby with another man or who enjoyed gay porn.
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I have had similar thoughts, right down to feeling that, I'm married so this has got to be wrong. From reading the posts here, lots of us have those thoughts. My fantasy is to meet a guy that likes me for who I am and enjoys the feminine side of me (that is, really likes the fact that I dress up as a woman). From the little online research I've done on the matter, it would appear unlikely that this kinky knight is living in my neighborhood, state, or country... Kinky, sleezy, etc, but knightly, nope. But if I did happen to meet someone that fit the bill so to speak, well, I don't know what would happen
I am a biological male but when I am dressed I am the woman that I should, and want to be. All the appropriate female behaviour goes with it including my feelings as a woman and my behavior toward a special man with who I am fortunate to have a relationship.
...LISA
I am lucky to share a marriage and love with a truely wonderful GG. I would never do anything that would hurt her (like cheating). Even if she would let me chase men while dressed that feels somehow wrong. I guess maybe when en femm I'm a lesbian? But I can understand how some of you feel. Perhaps I'm not that far one way in the spectrum.
Edyta
Hello for the longest time I would just dress , then started to go out dressed out of town, to gay CD bars, would talk to others and have drinks and just think what it would be like to touch or kiss, but never acted on it , it was torture. Then I meet a bimm like my self , he was courious also , we talked , had drinks and meet quite a few times , all the while I am thinking of what its like to be held and kissed and touched and better yet have love made to me like a women. Well after about 6 weeks we did kiss and touch in private and I got so dizzy and felt so wonderful the it went on from there, we did not have sex on the frist intimate date, but we did explore some, and in time it happend , I still see him discreetly and its a wonderful relationship, no one at home gets hurt and I can act on my desires as a women, I am sorry its cheating but I am telling the truth , and yes its wonderful to have love made to you as a women, from the right man
you are so right Megan, I was the same way untill I did it
I have been thinking about this for some time, but for me i'm sure its just a fantasy i wouldn't act out.
No d?m way that I would
Your Pal
Dan
They'll have the courage to meet me.
Oh oH OvaH!
To be honest, I have a girlfriend. She has no idea that I like to dress up and wish to be a girl!! <3 When I go out with her and i am with her alot of my time if i am not at work. But anyways I love her, but also when i dress up. I am new and i wish if i look passible or not. I think i would be but i need to help. But i would love to date another guy and be treated like a girl. I would
<3 that so much. But I wouldnt mind getting a little physical in bed... <3
I think it would be fine, plus i think i would be damn good at it to.<3<3<#
Last edited by Sandra; 10-28-2008 at 08:35 AM.
Like so many, when dressed, i wonder about being with a specaial man, to be caressed, held, danced with, laying with. I am single, desire a birthgirl in drab mode, which is most of the time. I put ads on casual encouters on Craigslist, got many responses. All want sex quick. Hard to find gentlemen on the internet sites! If your wife disaproves, don't act on it. It is tough enough for singles!
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