My wife has accepted and supported my dressing for 28 years. She is able to see beyond the clothing I am wearing. As for as she is concerned I am still her husband whether I am dressed in a dress or a man's suit. We have traveled the world over as two women enjoying life. Many think we are sisters and we love to play that role. Sometimes if they figure out that I am a crossdresser we just educate about what it means to be "gender gifted". Now that I am retired I live 60% of my time as Melanie but still devote around 40% of my time for my wife to have her "man". I do have the best of both worlds and would not give up one for the other.