I am 27, i look ultra femme when dressed, my voice is soft. I made my money a couple of years ago and now don't have to work. I go out shopping for clothes, with my partner, she fully understands who i am and why i have to look this way, we socialize alot, our friends see me in both boy and girl mode and don't really care as i always act the same anyway, its never an issue. My family apreciate me for who i am dressed both as male and female. I totally pass, strangers we meet can't tell, everone accepts what they see as reality, my reality.
The problem is that this is not the world i live in.
Yes i am still quite young, i think i do look quite good when dressed and i can put on a soft voice, but only a few words, a full conversation would out me. (along with a 5 oclock shadow once the makeup begins to fade), i still have to work so couldn't risk completely plucking my eybrows (which messes with the whole look by the way) as people would talk or not take me seriosly, my partner doesn't know and recentley when i tested the water with a comment among friends that i would look amazing as a girl (was in context, conversation had already led us to the subject) i was met with a discusted look, i may lose her, friends (girls) were a little more accepting of the comment, friends (men) were a lttle wierded out, made fun of me for a bit (alpha male type group (of which strangely im near the top)). It would be an issue. My family are traditional, they like to think their liberal but their not and would never accept.
And so i have two looks, the one the outside world sees and the one i keep locked away until im alone and can express my other side.
Now how can one go from long paragraph 2 to long paragraph 1? can it be done? is there anybody out there who has done this, even in part, and could share with me what i could expect, what were the reactions of family, friends, partners? any answers would be greatly recieved
Crystal xx