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    Junior Member IMJenn's Avatar
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    An interesting and confusing situation

    Well, I've been absent from these boards for a short while, not sure if anyone has missed me. There is an interesting development in my life, having to do with my crossdressing to an extent, and I would like the opnion of the other girls here.

    Four months ago my girlfriend(She will be referred to as "Ann". Not her real name though, to protect her privacy) had broken up with me. She had known about my dressing, but did not accept it. She never wanted to see it. She would help me with shopping though, so she did not hate it completely.

    Not too long ago she became pyscho-ex demanding I give her back things that been gifts to me over a year ago. My life was crazy and I didn't know what to do.

    Insert a friend of mine, "Mary"(also name changed). Mary is someone I hadn't talked to in about 3 years, but we got back in contact with each other, and picked our friendship up right where it left off, as close friends. She called me, needing to vent. I needed to vent as well about Ann, so we went to a diner to vent.

    I made a joke about if I could have a picture of me kissing another girl, I could put it on facebook or myspace to piss off my ex. Mary said she would do it. (I was surprised, because she is a lesbian) As a joke I kissed her, and she kissed me back.

    Now I am a male crossdresser who has a lesbian friend. The most confusing situation I have ever been in, but I now understand to an extent what some GGs go through with a cross-dressing boyfriend. I don't understand how she can be gay and love me, but we deal with it. It's working very well for us so far.

    Oh, and everyone who is out of closet may be happy for me, because Mary is determined to drag me out of the closet kicking and screaming.
    Just trying to find my place in the world

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    t-girl seeking friends AndiSwitch's Avatar
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    lucky lucky girl. Enjoy

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    You lucky girl, does "Mary" have a friend who likes crossdressers too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by IMJenn View Post
    ....I don't understand how she can be gay and love me, but we deal with it. It's working very well for us so far....
    I would hazard to guess that she is a human with a heart of gold just like you. There is not enough time to attempt understanding love. Just appreciate it when it happens.

    Babette

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    Now I am a male crossdresser who has a lesbian friend.
    Oh, and everyone who is out of closet may be happy for me, because Mary is determined to drag me out of the closet kicking and screaming. [/QUOTE]

    Sounds like a delightful situation, a GG who approves and wants you out of the closet. Lucky YOU
    Laura

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    a Kiss is just a Kiss. were did you read in to it that she loves you . i would say cool your jets Romeo ...
    take it slow
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    Wink

    Great stuff.
    Jersey isn't all that far for me.
    Does Mary have any sisters?

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    Jenn, I would have to agree with the rest of the girls here..."Mary" is a lucky girl and you haven't done too bad yourself!

    Hugs

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    I don't get it either, MJ!

    Quote Originally Posted by MJ View Post
    a Kiss is just a Kiss. were did you read in to it that she loves you . i would say cool your jets Romeo ...
    take it slow
    Jumping from, "a joke kiss", to, "being in love"? Either we missed something, or she forgot to mention the part about them moving in together!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Quote Originally Posted by IMJenn View Post

    Now I am a male crossdresser who has a lesbian friend. The most confusing situation I have ever been in, but I now understand to an extent what some GGs go through with a cross-dressing boyfriend. I don't understand how she can be gay and love me, but we deal with it. It's working very well for us so far.

    Oh, and everyone who is out of closet may be happy for me, because Mary is determined to drag me out of the closet kicking and screaming.
    I suspect that the "but we deal with it" implies a lot has happened since. I suspect someone that she can relate to is more important than Jenn being a guy. I also suspect a lucky Jenn is being ecouraged to be her "girl".

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    Quote Originally Posted by MJ View Post
    a Kiss is just a Kiss. were did you read in to it that she loves you . i would say cool your jets Romeo ...
    take it slow

    The part where she told me she loves me.

    Maybe I forgot to mentino that...
    Just trying to find my place in the world

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    I think I picked up on everything except the "kicking and screaming" part.
    The very best wishes to you both.
    No these are not womens clothes!! THEY ARE MINE, EVEN THE HEELS. (update 4/01/10) THEY ARE NOW ! ! !

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