Just over two years ago, I came out to my SO. She wasn't real thrilled about being married to a CD and not telling her for a loooooong time was a bit of a trust issue. However, what started out as don't ask don't tell slowly moved to being able to wear polish on my toes, wear satin pajamas to bed, and wear panties 24/7. Back in December, my SO even went with me when I got my ears pierced. Not trying to push too hard, I asked if the basement of the house (where my office is located) could be an optional clothing zone. No response for two months. Just a while ago she came into my office and said "I've been thinking." What followed was her acceptance of my idea to make the basement an optional clothing zone where I could wear whatever I would like. I guess the slow and steady approach has its merits! I also guess I need to do something nice for my wonderful spouse!